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den4
Feb 5, 2005, 05:23
After reading this article, I was kind of curious what kind of habits people had when they left Japan for their own country again...

KURASHIKI CLASSIC, From Moscow with love, violinist at home in Japan
By HIROKO OIKAWA, Contributing Writer

Russian violinist Anastasia Chebotareva has adapted so well to life in Japan that she now has to readjust whenever she goes home to Moscow.

``It usually takes me a few days. For instance, Japanese words keep popping into my mind, even at home,'' she said through an interpreter during an interview in Tokyo.

Upon arriving here in 2000 to teach in a Moscow Conservatory-affiliated program at Kurashiki Sakuyo University in Okayama Prefecture, Chebotareva was bewildered by the Japanese custom of bowing.

``I wondered why people needed to bow so much. But now that I'm used to it, I feel a bit taken aback when visiting countries without that custom,'' she says with a smile.

Co-winner of the top prize awarded at the 1994 International Tchaikovsky Competition, Chebotareva often performs overseas, but she's always happy to return to the historic city of Kurashiki.

``I like the people and quiet environment of Kurashiki, with its clean air,'' she says.

But Chebotareva misses her parents and the Russian Orthodox Church, which she says has but a small presence in this country.

``My parents have given me so much of their time and energy since my childhood. Without their help, I wouldn't have started playing the violin,'' she explains.

Chebotareva was born in Odessa in the former Soviet republic of Ukraine. Her family moved to Moscow when she was 4, as the climate in her hometown had adversely affected her health. The relocation opened the door for her musical career.

She began violin lessons at 6, prompted by her father. Later, she enrolled at the Moscow Central Music School, where she met Irina Bochkova.

One of Russia's leading violin teachers, Bochkova was to become her mentor for 18 years, as she progressed through the Moscow Conservatory and its graduate school.

``She devoted so much time for me,'' Chebotareva says. ``Eighteen years felt like forever.''

The violinist says the time she spent with Bochkova was so full of memorable moments that she could write a book about them.

``She was a sweet teacher,'' Chebotareva recalls. ``But when I was not prepared, she would sigh and say, `Oh, I don't know what to do.' Then I would feel terrible and work very hard until the next lesson.''

She remembers her teacher's admonitions with fondness now and uses the same tactic with her own students.

``Basically, I don't like scolding students,'' she says. ``But when necessary, that trick works.''

Trained in the Yankelevich method, which nurtured many of Russia's best violinists, Chebotareva made a name for herself in competitions, starting with the 1989 Paganini International Competition in Genoa, Italy. But her greatest triumph came at the Tchaikovsky Competition in 1994, when she shared second prize. No first prize was awarded.

``It left a strong impression, not only because I spent a lot of time preparing, but because I was sick in bed for two weeks before the event,'' she says. ``I thought about withdrawing, but my teacher and parents told me not to quit after practicing so hard. So I entered the first stage still feeling sick.''

Through force of will, Chebotareva made it through the second and then the final stage, when she performed concertos by both Brahms and Tchaikovsky twice in the same day, first in a rehearsal setting and then before an audience.

``I advise young musicians not to worry about success or failure. Working hard to reach a goal is the valuable part,'' she says.

Chebotareva covers an extensive repertoire in the seven discs she's recorded so far for Ongakunotomo-sha and King Records. She plays music ranging from Russian and French classical to a collaboration with young composer Taro Iwashiro for the acclaimed ``Arco'' album. Her latest disc is ``Tema D'amore-Cinema Collection.''

Chebotareva says the sound she produces on her violin is a reflection of her own nature. The tones are both gentle and graceful.

``Musicians express their inner selves through the music they make. They can't deceive their audience as actors do with masks,'' she observes.

Chebotareva's fans got a treat last year when she appeared in a Fuji Television Network show about the life of a Korean violin maker starring Tsuyoshi Kusanagi of the pop group SMAP. She portrayed a violinist who played a Stradivarius at a concert that the violin maker attended in the hope of discovering the secret behind the legendary instrument's sound.

``After the show was televised, I heard that many people had thought the pretty violinist was an actress faking a violin performance,'' she says with a laugh. ``I enjoyed watching the show. I was proud to be part of it.''

The instrument she used was the priceless 1729 Stradivarius Zubowsky that she has on loan from the Russian government.

``Stradivari's talent was a gift from God. No one will be able to copy his work,'' Chebotareva declares.

And few have the talent to play one of his violins as expertly as she does.

Anastasia Chebotareva performs with pianist Andrei Zheltonog on Feb. 11 (1:30 p.m.) at Sapporo Concert Hall Kitara. 2,500 yen and 3,500 yen in advance. Call Piano Teachers' National Association of Japan at 011-615-0710.

Chebotareva presents a lecture concert with musicologist Fumiko Hitotsuyanagi on Feb. 25 (7 p.m.) at the Asahi Culture Center in Tokyo. 3,990 yen for members and 4,510 yen for non-members. Call the center at 03-3344-1998.

Her concert with the NHK Symphony Orchestra, led by Tatsuya Shimono, on Feb. 27 at Tokyo Metropolitan Art Space is sold out.(IHT/Asahi: February 4,2005)

Uncle Frank
Feb 5, 2005, 05:51
The worst habbit I picked up was driving on the wrong side of the road. My first month back home I found myself day-dreamining while driving on the left instead of the right. Lucky trafic was light.

Frank

:blush:

jjaappaa
Feb 5, 2005, 13:24
My worst or maybe best habit is taking off my shoes before going into a house. I even get people to do it in my place in Oz. It makes so much sense to me. I can't stand the thought of shoes covered in crap walking through my house!!

kuntow
Feb 5, 2005, 14:11
I still get chewed out for slurping my noodles.

RockLee
Feb 6, 2005, 01:17
well...I always sleep in the bus...train...metro...but I did that already before I went to Japan ^^. But I can't stop saying : "Yoshi".
"unun" after every question somebody asks, or sentence he/she says... :souka:

Pachipro
Feb 7, 2005, 02:05
Yes, shoes in the house is a definite no-no at my house. Some guests are surprised when I ask them to remove their shoes. Most surprised are the repairmen, but they do it anyway.

I find myself bowing when speaking Japanese on the telephone and scratching my head when trying to answer a question.

I sometimes find myself using the familiar "karate chop" when passing through a crowd.

Sometimes I will slurp spaghetti like ramen.

sgt. Pepper
Feb 7, 2005, 05:45
My worst or maybe best habit is taking off my shoes before going into a house. I even get people to do it in my place in Oz. It makes so much sense to me. I can't stand the thought of shoes covered in crap walking through my house!!

It's common sense not to walk indoor with shoes on...isn't it? :/ I thought only Germans walked with shoes on indoors.

Brooker
Feb 7, 2005, 06:00
I actually really DON'T like taking my shoes off indoors, although I didn't complain about it while I was in Japan. Now that I'm back in America, I'm glad I can wear my shoes indoors again. I figure, I don't sit on the floor, who cares if it's dirty.

When I lived in Tokyo, my friend and I lived in separate rooms in a gaijin house and would regularly walk on our tatami floors with our shoes on. But, we figured, hey it's my room, I can wear shoes if I want to. I've probably just horrified most of you.

I don't mind having my shoes off, I just don't like bothering to take them off and put them back on constantly. But when it was required of me, I'd take them off.

Growing up, I had one friend whose mom (who was German, but I don't know if that's significant) insisted that everyone always take their shoes off before coming in their house and I always thought that was a little strange and a little anal, but different strokes for different folks.

sgt. Pepper
Feb 7, 2005, 06:10
But if you walk with shoes on indoors the floor gets EXTREMELY dirty. :/ And the feet needs to breathe too. :)

Vinylhoer
Feb 7, 2005, 06:21
I'be only been to Japan for two weeks so I don't think I can call it a habit I took back home, but after seeing more and more Japanese films in the last 1,5 years I sometimes bow in my mind. So I don't actually do it physically, but it's just part of my thought. It's so strange :okashii:

I also notice myself saying the short 'mm' for yes where I used to say 'uhuh'. It sounds so much nicer.

And eating with hashi is great! I enjoy my food much better when I use them. But I usually eat rice Korean style though: with a spoon :D

jjaappaa
Feb 7, 2005, 08:45
But if you walk with shoes on indoors the floor gets EXTREMELY dirty. :/ And the feet needs to breathe too. :)
I am with you on the feet needing to breathe. I am a thong wearer from way back. I mean thong"s" wearer. :relief:

PopCulturePooka
Feb 7, 2005, 09:45
Hmmm.
Definately the sleeping thing.

Also a bunch of words I use now like 'Itai'!

Timsan
Feb 7, 2005, 09:47
wearing slippers for the past 5 years, even though i didnt wear shoes inside, my socks stay clean and feet warmer

ArmandV
Feb 7, 2005, 09:52
Maybe filling my apartment with Japanese artifacts/souvenirs and buying Japanese chinaware.

mad pierrot
Feb 7, 2005, 13:27
I think the single biggest change I've noticed in myself is that I'm always asking people if they're "genki?"

:)

orochi
Feb 8, 2005, 07:59
I think a habit a lot of people pick up while in Japan (and maybe some of them not even noticing it) is drinking... a lot of drinking. Japanese people like having occasions to drink and drink a good amount. Also, there is no societal stigma of being "a drunk" so people get into the habit of heavy drinking multiple times within the week. Being in that culture coupled with culture shock, homesickness, etc, leads to loads of drinking.

PopCulturePooka
Feb 8, 2005, 09:17
I'll drink to that!
A lot!

orochi
Feb 8, 2005, 13:55
*hiccup* *hiccup*

GaijinPunch
Feb 8, 2005, 14:56
Took me months to not say "hai" or something to that affect when answer to questions at stores and whatnot... having 70% of the surrounding population be asian in some form of fashion doesn't help. :)

Brooker
Feb 9, 2005, 10:00
I think a habit a lot of people pick up while in Japan (and maybe some of them not even noticing it) is drinking... a lot of drinking. Japanese people like having occasions to drink and drink a good amount. Also, there is no societal stigma of being "a drunk" so people get into the habit of heavy drinking multiple times within the week. Being in that culture coupled with culture shock, homesickness, etc, leads to loads of drinking.

I was a drunk before I got to Japan, and drunk while in Japan, and whadduya know, still a drunk. :gulp:

I drank a lot while in Japan, but I don't think the beer is nearly as strong. Because when I got back to America, I tried to drink the same amount of beer and got knocked on my @$$.

hebiichigo
Feb 9, 2005, 14:36
It's not much for me...
Saying "itadakimasu" at dinner. My own parents do it now too.
Just saying "ne", "nani kore" etc...
Attaching countless number of straps to my mobile phone... Is that really a habit?
:lol:

jjaappaa
Feb 9, 2005, 15:10
Yes the 'itadakimasu' is a hard habit to break. And also saying oyasumi.

noxlord
Feb 10, 2005, 08:18
I was a drunk before I got to Japan, and drunk while in Japan, and whadduya know, still a drunk. :gulp:

I drank a lot while in Japan, but I don't think the beer is nearly as strong. Because when I got back to America, I tried to drink the same amount of beer and got knocked on my @$$.

Japanese bear must be realy weak, because I thought American bear was realy weak..... :souka:

Timsan
Feb 10, 2005, 11:22
I think a habit a lot of people pick up while in Japan (and maybe some of them not even noticing it) is drinking... a lot of drinking. Japanese people like having occasions to drink and drink a good amount. Also, there is no societal stigma of being "a drunk" so people get into the habit of heavy drinking multiple times within the week. Being in that culture coupled with culture shock, homesickness, etc, leads to loads of drinking.

The Japanese are unable to become addicted to alcohol by means of some strange genetical variable. I am not making that up either, google it.

-Rudel-
Feb 10, 2005, 11:32
UHN! UHN! UHN! :D

and when I get the attention of someone I know, I wil usually say OI!

meninadosul
Feb 10, 2005, 13:44
These are some of my acquired habits:

- I react saying "sugoooi !" or "kawaiii !".
- I apologize more than I would do in my home country.
- I'm very aware of the time, all the time.

Iron Chef
Feb 15, 2005, 20:44
"and when I get the attention of someone I know, I wil usually say OI!"

Heh, same here.

GaijinPunch
Feb 16, 2005, 14:28
The Japanese are unable to become addicted to alcohol by means of some strange genetical variable. I am not making that up either, google it.

I'll be sure to mention that to my Japanese friend that had to go to rehab. I'll admit, it's much rarer there, but it happens.