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teddyursa
May 7, 2008, 23:32
First of all, I hope this is the right place to post about my experience in Japan. If not, Sumimasen :) to the moderators and please help to relocate the post to the appropriate location. Thanks.
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I had never thought of visiting Japan and if not for the unrest in Tibet, I would not have changed plans to do so. And I am glad that I have done so. I spent about 25 days in Japan - 7 in Kyoto, 3 in Nara and the rest in Shikoku.
When I arrived in Japan, I spoke no Japanese at all. Travelling in Kyoto was easy. The buses and trains are really organized. Since I could read Chinese, the Kanji was not difficult for me to understand. Getting to places were easy. Although I did not speak any Japanese, I did not have any problems finding my way again. Every time I asked for help, the people were surprisingly patient and kind. I would say they even go out of their way to help. I was trying to get to Tengaimon in Nara Park one day and went to a Japanese guy to ask for directions. In the end, he walked with me to the gate! And that was not even on his way.
I had similar experience in Shikoku. I told the bus from Nara to Tokushima and arrived around 9pm. I was absolutely lost. I went up to a Japanese (by now I could utter a few standard phrases in Japanese) to ask him to help me translate the directions given by the youth hostel into Kanji. The man got up, and went to the terminal to check the buses then saw the email I was holding, walked to a public phone, called the YH, took me to the bus, got onto the bus and told the bus driver to let me know when to get off. Then he left and would not even take the money for the phone call.
This is just one of the experiences in many. I felt so bad meeting so many kind Japanese and not being able to say anything except arigatou gozaimasu so I decided to buy a english-japanese dictionary. A woman saw that I looked lost - I think - and asked me if I needed help. She spoke little English so she called her friend and had me spoke to her. In the end she not only took me to the bookstore, helped me find the dictionary, she even bought me lunch. Imagine that!
So in the end when I left Japan, I had so many wonderful memories of Japan... the old woman in Oboke who gave me a onigiri because I walked by her house, the woman in Kochi who got me the dictionary, the lady biker in Ashizuri Misaki who gave up her YH reservation (Shin Hesa dera) so that I had a place to stay, another biker who took me camping and dropped me off at Okayama (he lives near Shin Hesa dera and when he found out that I was going there, he told me it was really boring... so he took me on his bike to Matsuyama, Oboke and then to Okayama for the big bridges, parks, temples, etc)...
I was totally amazed by my experience in Japan. Very often when I looked lost, someone would always come up to me and offer me help. Most of the Japanese I met do not speak much English and me, hardly any Japanese. Yet, by the time I leave Japan, I have left behind friends and took with me so many wonderful memories and miyage (everyone seems to want to give me something - what culture!) from so many people.
There are many nice things about Japan (environmental consciousness, orderly, clean, etc) but the best part is the people I have met. I did not recount all of the stories here... this is just a small part. Every day I felt so touched by the people I met there.

And thanks to everyone who has replied my earlier posts about Japan, making my trip possible and giving me a chance to experience Japan. Arigatou Gozaimashita. Honto tanoshiikata desu.

ASHIKAGA
May 10, 2008, 16:56
I am glad you had such a great time here. Reading your post put a smile on my face. :-)

dreamer
May 11, 2008, 22:58
I was pretty surprised by how the Japanese people reacted with you ^^
Those I have known have always been very shy and I am glad you had such a nice experience

teddyursa
May 12, 2008, 09:23
I spoke to some of the travellers in Shikoku, and most of us have had similar experience where the Japanese offered help without us asking :) The Japanese may be shy but never too shy to offer a helping hand to someone who needs it.

In Kyoto, a Canadian girl told me that in Tokyo, a Japanese helped her carry her baggages - she stopped many times to rest as her backpack was really heavy (she's very petit) and he thought she needed help!

I am glad to have visited Japan and knowing that in this cold, commercialised world out here, there is still warmth on Earth.

ASHIKAGA
May 12, 2008, 12:02
I was pretty surprised by how the Japanese people reacted with you ^^
Those I have known have always been very shy and I am glad you had such a nice experience
Those Cat-Ears growing out of your head might have had something to do with it....:p

teddyursa
May 12, 2008, 17:52
What "cat-ears"? I thought it was my wonderful personality! :)
Seriously... I asked the owner of Ku-nel-asob (a guesthouse in Oboke) why Japanese people are so nice. By the time I get to Oboke, I had received all kinds of miyage. I don't understand. And all Nori san could say to me was, perhaps it is in the Japanese DNA to be nice.

Whatever it was, Japan was really memorable. It is addictive and makes me want to go back. I am on a 10-month backpacking trip and have to move forward... and at this mormnet, I am moving forward but sometimes I look back and move on reluctantly. You cannot imagine the impact of Japan on me!

p.s. I have been to many places - NZ, Australia, Philippines, Indonesia, Malaysia, China, Maldives, Italy, Switzerland, USA, Canada, England, Scotland... etc etc and no place touched me as much as Japan. Italy was closed... but not like that. So, really, a BIG thank you to all the Japanese people I have met for making my trip so memorable and special.

dreamer
May 12, 2008, 20:56
Hahaha I think Ashikaga is talking about my cat ears ^^
But I keep them hidden when I go out :p

Still I've been to many of the places you quoted and indeed, people are different. But that is something to be expected as culture is different from place to place. Although I guess that you being a girl helped, I will find out next year how Japanese people are :relief::relief:

shōwa-kun
May 12, 2008, 21:56
Japan is really a great country! I have always wanted to live and work in Japan for a while but haven't got the chance yet.

I love Japan. 日本に一目惚れですよ!

hutchi
May 21, 2008, 11:22
ghlad to hear of all the kindness you recieved, iw as wondering if you stayed in youth hostels for most of your trip and if so did you book your room in advance, i know the japanese feel better if they know you are coming but i wish to travel with out a set plan so i can more around more freely if disired thanks again for your story

teddyursa
May 21, 2008, 20:11
Hi, Hutchi,

I only stayed at youth hostels. Generally I tried to book at most 2 days in advance, and it worked well. I only ran into issues during Japan Golden Week. Other than that, I never had problems. In Kyoto, I did not stay with the JYH but went with Lonely Planets recommendation (somewhat cheaper).

At some of the more remote locations, I also took the meals (breakfast and dinner) at the hostel and the experience was usually good. I like the dishes and it gave me an opportunity to meet other travellers.

That's said, I just want to emphasize that my experience is only valid for Kyoto, Nara and Shikoku. Happy travelling and you should have a great time in Japan too.

Cheers!