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senseiman
Nov 7, 2003, 13:50
In another thread (Why does Japan suck so much) the issue of whether or not a foreigner should criticize Japan was raised. One poster said that it is inappropriate for someone to criticize someone elses country, while I felt that it was perfectly reasonable to do so, so long as you could back up what you were saying.
What do you think? Is it OK for foreigners to 'bash' Japan, and if so how far can you go before you go too far?
criticism is cool...bashing is left for folks like "blinky" Ishihara... :D
Iron Chef
Nov 7, 2003, 17:34
Criticism when constructive and presented in a proper context is great. The problem that I see though (myself included), is most people tend to use broad generalizations, categorical labels, general assumptions, etc. etc. to either oversimplify or dilute/concentrate things ala "Well, Japanese women like..." or "Japan will never agree to...". This can be misleading because it can present a distorted and or inaccurate image or portrayal of whatever issue is at hand being addressed. Let's face it... what's the one thing everybody hates on a public forum (besides trolls and spammers 8-p)? Someone who tries to come off as a "know-it-all" and that said person's point of view is the only one that should be heeded.
I try to preface my queries with statements like "From my experience" or "To the best of my knowledge" etc. etc. because I feel it is important to distinguish that none of us are truly experts per se on ALL things Japanese. Most of us who aren't Japanese will always have a different perspective that is shaped, molded, and influenced by the culmination of our experiences abroad, as well as the result of the socialization process in our own countries.
All that being said, am I or have I ever been critical of Japan? Sure, on many issues. Does my opinion really matter for squat when all is said and done? Nope, because that is after all just one person's opinion and by no means is representative or reflective of a broader population and as such should always be taken with a grain of salt (although I have been told I make a great Trivial Pursuit partner 8-p).
:)
ragedaddy
Nov 7, 2003, 20:50
I can understand where some people are coming from when they get irate about people saying bad things about Japan. However, it doesn`t seem like everybody realizes that sometimes the bashing is aimed at the situation that occurred rather than a culture or group as a whole. For example, the misleading brochure could happen in any country, and I`m sure senseiman would be just as pissed off if it occurred in his own country. I am sure he would be complaining just as much as about that tourist company. The point is when you are mad, you end up talking smack about the people that are responsible for the action, and that is just human nature. Senseiman just happened to be in Japan when it happened. I agree maybe he was a little hostile, but he didn`t say that every Japanese person is messed up or anything to that extent. He was just venting about what occurred, and when people are angry sometimes they come off a little stronger than they really wanted to express. All he is doing is expressing his displeasures that happened while he was living in Japan. It`s not like since this one Japanese person did something bad to him, and so now he is going to label every other Japanese person as being the same. Therefore, I think Tiger overacted a little too much, but that`s about it.
Don`t get me wrong, because I`m not trying to defend people who bash Japan. There are ignorant people who use racial slurs, stereotypes, and other hurtful things about a race, culture, gender, or religion. I don`t condone this at all, and in fact I am usually the one retaliating against those kinds of people. I am talking about the people that are saying all Japanse are this.....or all black people are that, I have no patience for these types of imbasulic people. When it comes to discriminating against another group of people, that kind of bashing is unacceptable.
I agree with Iron Chef about the people who think they know everything there is to know about a country since that have lived their for an elongated period of time. They say that`s how it is, and there are no other possible point-of-view that exists.
Many times that person`s explanation or definition is a little skewed, and can`t really be taken as credible information. I`m not saying all of it is incorrect, but sometimes that kind of thing happens.
I myself have found various things about Japan to be a little frustrating, but I have also had a plethora of awesome experiences here. Sometimes, I get a little ticked about things that happened to me here living in Tokyo. However, I don`t go bad mouthing the population as a whole, just the offenders. Wherever you go there will be nice people and mean people, so just go with the flow and try not to blame the country or people as a whole for your own mishaps.
:D
I never have that problem...too many people have told me that I don't know anything, so that must be true.... :D
So, I am the self-proclaimed "Know-it-nothing" guru of this and other forums... :D
Uncle Frank
Nov 8, 2003, 03:31
I notice I find it easier to complain the older I get!
Frank
if a japanese person come into this forum and post a thread on why america sux, nobody betta say nothin
all i'm sayin
Elizabeth
Nov 8, 2003, 14:02
It is a tricky issue definately and, as has already been stressed, one that probably depends a lot on precisely how you phrase the criticism, whether you are thoughtful enough to solicit their input beforehand and make sure to lay out a good preface "this is often how Westerners view things" or this is just my opinion" etc. As for the few Japanese I've ever had the courage to ask the best/worst things about their country: the best most won't say or can't think of anything but for the worst it is often something like Japanese are too close minded about outsiders and even about other Japanese that don't fit in. It just tends not to be assocated with racism or xenophobia in their minds, so if you baldly approach it from that angle you'll most likely get the standard reply about prejudice and discrimination everywhere. But I do agree with factual and constructive "criticism" or sharing individual experiences of difficulties with another culture as a way of provoking thought and understanding whether you have lived there two years or three months and leaving it to the recipiant to judge your credibility.
Maciamo
Nov 8, 2003, 23:49
Considering that I would first shamelessly bash my own country, then the neighbouring countries if there is a reason for it (there always is, we don't live in a perfect world, and my standards are very high anyway), bashing Japan, especially if one lives there, is as perfectly acceptable.
Politeness ? Yes, as usual if one is well-educated, they should know that. Knowing what one is talking about ? A basis to credibility, isn't it ?
senseiman
Nov 9, 2003, 15:00
Thanks for replying everyone.
I think it is a touchy subject. I too think it depends a lot on the circumstances in which the criticism is being made. Obviously criticism based on racial prejudices is totally indefensible. But I think criticism based on limited personal experiences and personal tastes is also often hollow. There are people who tend to attribute certain isolated problems to the Japanese nation as a whole. Like some foreigners who see young Japanese spending huge sums of money on designer clothing, brand name hand bags and expensive cell phones - and then project this image of shallow consumerism to all of Japanese society, when in fact it only relates to a small minority.
On the other hand, I've noticed the tendency to defend Japan on the basis that a foreigner can't understand its culture is almost unique to this country. Anyone suggesting that a Japanese persons criticism of Canada is skewed because they cannot possibly understand our complex and mysterious cultural ways would be laughed out of town. Yet that sort of comment seems pretty standard when a debate about some negative aspect of Japan's society comes up.
I've notice that Japanese seem to have a much more heightened awareness of their national identity than people in other countries. Perhaps this makes them more sensitive to criticism of their country and more likely to take it personally. I notice that the Japanese government, for example, tends to ignore some issues until the foreign press starts to criticize it and only then does it take action to stem international embarassment. Like with the Onsens in Hokkaido with their 'No foreigners' signs out front. Wasn't a problem until the foreign press started printing pictures of the signs. Solution? Take the English out of the sign so that it won't be embarrasing to Japan.
i don't want to waste time providing a real cool analogy (maybe for the rebuttal :))
i'm sitting in MY house, on MY couch chilling
it's an old/new/yellow/purple/whatever couch, but its comfy and paid for
somebody comes in (i didn't invite him, but my roommate might have)
dude starts tripping about "man, that couch is ugleee! you should get a new one!"
"oh, you gone buy me one?" "naw, i'm telling you to go buy one though!"
"and get another bookcase! you may want to get a tv someday, so you should go buy a new one -- just in case"
"i like your curtains, but you need to open the shutters more to let in air or light/whatever! my girlfriend thinks so too! ain't that right honey!"
and i got a second floor balcony
senseiman
Nov 11, 2003, 11:19
I can see the point that you are trying to make Budd, but I think its kind of a flawed analogy. Its not like there are a lot of guys just barging into Japan, picking out random Japanese that they don't know on the street and telling them whats wrong with their country and why America or wherever they are from is better. Well.....on second thought perhaps there are such people and they obviously shouldn't be put up with, but thats not really what I was talking about.
I would view my personal situation as more analogous to this. You have an apartment and I have moved in as your roomate. I like living there and we get along, but there are some things I dislike about living there (maybe you are a messy roommate or something). I'm frustrated because I know you are set in your ways and I can't change you so I don't want to cause any hurt feelings by confronting you directly. It also pisses me off that even though I pay half the rent, utilities, etc. you still think of it as YOUR apartment and look at me as some sort of transient even after I've lived there for a few years. So I go complain with my other friends, who also live in someone else's apartment, about the things we don't like about the situation. Its not that we don't like living with our roommates, its just that when we get together we like to poor out our frustrations as a way of venting.
that's baloney, and it's also the reason why i can't (also) bring MY friends over...
i'll leave this thread alone though (some heavy-handed people pulling the strings) and probably the board pretty soon as a result, so it doesn't matter that much i guess
Iron Chef
Nov 15, 2003, 06:04
What are you implying? Your veiled comment lost me...
neko_girl22
Nov 15, 2003, 14:51
I'm pretty sensitive when it comes to Japan bashing, but I feel there is no problem with valid criticism as long as it's not all the time (no one likes a moaner!)
For me, I really get upset about the pollution problem and the way people keep dogs (or any animal) in extremely small cages or keep them tied up with a short rope all day :( (but, both of these things happen in most countries.)
It's people that moan or make fun of things of personal taste - like how it's "stupid" how Japanese eat raw fish or the like that I think is unacceptable.
senseiman
Nov 15, 2003, 17:43
I didn't really understand your last post, Buddd. But if you are leaving, it was nice talking with ya!
Yeah, I agree with you, nzueda. There is a difference between complaining about universal problems that effect us all equally (pollution, animal cruelty, etc.) and issues related to cultural differences and taste (food, etc.).
Not that there is anything wrong with saying "I don't like Sushi", but there has to be a line drawn between questions of taste and moral judgements.
Some of my Japanese classmates from 2 yrs ago really hated London, i think all they really did was sit in class and complain about how crap the country is / was, how dirty it is compared to Japan, how the sky isnt as blue, etc, etc..
I think they most likely expected too much, and got dissapointed which led to their frustration.
Sometimes it was a bit annoying considering i live in London and i think it's ok, but then everyone is entitled to their opinion eh ?
But then again sometimes i think it sucks here too. LoL ! :D
neko_girl22
Nov 20, 2003, 08:02
they thought the sky was more blue in Japan? When I lived in Kobe sometimes I couldn't tell if the sky was clear or grey - bad pollution!!! I can only guess places like Tokyo are much worse. Those guys must've come from the countryside.....
I guess it comes down to personality too - some people just like complaining and I've found if people are in a situation that makes them uncomfortable or inferior they complain to make themselves feel better.....
senseiman
Nov 21, 2003, 12:35
And that is not mentioning the fact that you can't even see the sky in most cities through the massive jumble of power lines draped over every neighborhood!
Mind you, the view from the mountains in Japan can be quite breathtaking if you are away from the urban areas. But then again, the views in the English countryside can be equally lovely.
Kiwano
Nov 27, 2003, 07:19
I think that it's okay to criticize something, in this case Japan, IF you feel that you really have reason to do so. But it ain't cool to bash something just for the sake of bashing, and when one starts a thread, for example about bashing Japan, there will be a number of "trolls" on the thread who will cry their eyes out about everything they might come up with. Complaining can actually be a good way to handle the fact that the world isn't always what you want it to be, but one must be careful no to get lost in the complaints and forget to think if one really thinks/feels that way. I know do it some times, though I don't intend to, and sometimes other people might feel offended/hurt unnecessarily due to someones careless rant about something.
neko_girl22
Nov 27, 2003, 11:51
Originally posted by senseiman
And that is not mentioning the fact that you can't even see the sky in most cities through the massive jumble of power lines draped over every neighborhood!
Mind you, the view from the mountains in Japan can be quite breathtaking if you are away from the urban areas. But then again, the views in the English countryside can be equally lovely.
Yeah, I still can't get over all those powerlines!! so ugly!
Japanese countryside is beautiful! Living in a small town luckily I can enjoy blue skies and starry nights and the scenery is gorgeous! DH and I are thinking of renovating an old country house ... that would be so great! :happy:
Originally posted by nzueda
they thought the sky was more blue in Japan? When I lived in Kobe sometimes I couldn't tell if the sky was clear or grey - bad pollution!!! I can only guess places like Tokyo are much worse. Those guys must've come from the countryside.....
I guess it comes down to personality too - some people just like complaining and I've found if people are in a situation that makes them uncomfortable or inferior they complain to make themselves feel better.....
My friend showed me a photo once and it did look considerably blue'er than the sky in London.
Not too sure where the photo was of though, because it was her collection of photos whilst she was having her little travel around parts of Japan and her hometown.
When people say London is a grey country they arent really far off from the truth :D
But yeh i guess, when u feel uncomfortable complaining does kinda help ya feel better.
I always complain college is boring, but when i'm on summer holiday period i complain being at home is boring :D
Cant satsify everyone right ? :clap:
On the other hand, I've noticed the tendency to defend Japan on the basis that a foreigner can't understand its culture is almost unique to this country.
I've notice that Japanese seem to have a much more heightened awareness of their national identity than people in other countries.
While I agree that Japanese are highly aware of this, I disagree with it being so distinctive. I've known about a dozen Italians and they were like that big time -- and also used the "You don't understand our ways" a lot. At least when they weren't simply stating "our way is the right way."
And Israelis?? You can't talk about anything with them except maybe the weather on a sunny day. Of course, they probably have good ground for saying we don't understand what it's like to live your whole life in a war zone.
Let's see, who else ... Croatians. I tend to get a "don't even think about the Croatia-Serbia problems, you'll never understand. But trust us, we're good and they're bad" from them. I'm sure there are many others, but those come straight to mind.
Constructive or polite criticism is ok.. But when it gets categorized as bashing, It becomes no longer acceptable to me.. :p
I think that what exactly is being criticized is important to look at first. I believe that the issue of culture is fair ground to be discussed amongst any human being. We all have valid opinions based on our own cultures looking at a different culture. Being informed helps of course and someone bashing a culture they are ignorant of is not going to result in any decent ground for discussion and/or further debate. That problem will take care of itself.
Living in Japan myself, the problem I have is of foreigners who bash Japanese *people.* They are criticized for being less than honest, not very forward with their feelings, for being ethnocentric... the list goes on and on. The problem that I have is that most of the foreigners that do this criticizing cannot speak Japanese very well or at all. They rely on conversations in English to judge the Japanese people around them. I want to put them to the test... present yourself as honestly and as much as you can in Japanese (or any other language that you cannot speak very well for that matter) and be judged yourself. I find it very disturbing that people can judge someone based on conversations outside of their mother language. They need to make more of an effort to communicate in a way more comfortable to who they are speaking to to elicit a more realistic and honest answer.
I feel its only natural for a group of foreigners who get together to bash their host country. Happened when i went to japan (along with our respective countries having a go). I'm with Maciamo, my country (australia) is normally first. Normally my japan bashing is limited to the pollution, bad weather, teacher at school who was being mean, that kinda thing. Usual whinging.
My 2 cents:
Speaking on the topic in general, yes, it's okay to criticize another country or culture as long as you have an idea what you're talking about. People that argue about topics they don't have a clue about aren't worth your time. And they aren't worth going into long paragraphs about either.
Later,
Stets.
chiquiliquis
May 9, 2004, 19:42
I voted anything goes. But I think it's important to know a few things:
- why you are making your criticism.
A lot of people seem to have opinions on a lot of things, and feel it's more important to assert that opinion than to first assess why they own it.
- what you expect to accomplish by making it.
Again, not often thought of during the process; I am a pro at this one (and in a twisted way take pride in my increadible aptitude to that end). People often have low tolerance for criticism of social and cultural issues--they have less tolerance if all you hope to gain from it is some sort of emotional fulfillment. And yet less if you have no clue at all of what you expect to accomplish (you haven't given it thought).
All criticisms represent an individual judgment. But they are just that, individual. Now matter how "matter of fact" you present it, your criticism reflects you more than anything else. At the end of the day, you are just as flawed as the rest of us. :?
I think it's ok to do on a forum, but I wouldn't go over there and start saying 'this bed sucks, why don't you have proper ones' or something. I mean it annoys me how a lot of people who emigrate to England start whinging about it, especially the asylum seekers who have demanded mosques to be built and other rubbish.
But if something sucks, it sucks, and there's no point deliberately not talking about it. In a polite way of course :P
Golgo_13
Jun 26, 2004, 08:58
What follows is not a case of Japan-bashing but an example of ignorance.
In an article "Japan Wrestles with Sumo's Future" by Mike Street in
Volume 14, Number 24, Tuesday June 8, 2004 edition of Asian (!) Reporter of the Pacific Northwest NewsWeekly, the author comments on page 11, column 5, that "a rule was instituted [in 2001] requiring all sumotori to speak fluent Japanese, effectively barring Westerners from the sport." (emphasis added) (I read the hard copy but it's also available on-line at http://www.asianreporter.com/arts/24-04sumo.htm see the very last paragraph).
This is simply not true. Even if such a rule had indeed been instituted, there are more "Westerners" than ever before competing in Japanese Sumo today--3 Brazilians, 4 Russians, 1 Georgian, 1 Bulgarian, 1 Czech, 1 Estonian, and 1 from Kazakhstan, not to mention over 30 Mongolians, as of 6/21/04, which can all be verified at the Sumo website at http://sumo.goo.ne.jp/ozumo_meikan/shusshinchi/index.html
There is a section at the very bottom of the site--though in Japanese--that indicates where all the Sumotori hail from.
The writer did not bother to update his facts, and most likely did not imply that the Japanese are racist--I'll give him the benefit of the doubt--but his comment "effectively barring Westerners from the sport" could easily be inferred as such by uninformed readers. Such commentaries, if not protested, or at least questioned, will foster the misconception of the Japanese being racist.
I have asked the newspaper to retract the author's comment.
senseiman
Jul 16, 2004, 11:59
They shouldn't allow people who have no idea what they are talking about to write garbage like that. Even someone with only a passing knowledge of Sumo would know that a large proportion of the top ranked Yokozunas over the past decade or so have been foreigners.
Golgo_13
Jul 16, 2004, 12:16
Foreign-born Yokozuna Grand Champions in the past decade:
Akebono (USA)(retired)
Musashimaru (USA)(retired)
Asashouryuu (Mongolia)
Currently there are no Japanese Yokozunas
mdchachi
Jul 16, 2004, 20:46
That's a big fact to get wrong.
I think the main rule governing foreigners is that is only one foreigner allowed per stable, isn't that right? So there is a limit. Baseball has a similar cap I think.
Golgo_13
Jul 17, 2004, 11:15
They've considered it but not implemented it.
The main problem is, they're having recruitment problems. Numerous smaller stables have either dissolved or been absorbed by larger ones because of shortage of rikishis. Japanese kids today don't have much interest in Sumo. They prefer baseball and soccer. Besides, kids today don't have the necessary discipline to withstand the harsh conditions while being in the apprentice stage (only room and board and small allowance). Only those who have done well in collegiate competition who are confident enough to quickly get past the apprentice stage are signing up now. Plus, Japanese couples don't have too many kids these days and they won't allow a son to forego high school and join Sumo at the age 15.
In baseball, even if each team is limited to only 1 foreignor, there are still plenty of Japanese players to field a team with. But in Sumo, the stables have no choice but to go overseas to expand their pool of prospects and continue recruiting in order to stay afloat. They used to have a minimum height requirement (about 170 cm) but they've even relaxed that rule and accept candidates who show a high degree of athletic ability who are shorter than 170cm.
BTW, Kokkai from the Georgia Republic is competting currently in the top Makunouchi division. Rahou from Russia and Koto'oushuu from Bulgaria ended up with winning records in the Juryo division in the July tournament and are virtually assured of being promoted to the top level for the next tourney.
Sinspawne
Jul 18, 2004, 02:38
From what i have seen of Japans countryside. like on TV ... .... :blush:
It is quite similar to Norway
but i am insanly jelous of your night sky :mad:
i wanna see it TOO ! !
Amazinggrace
Jul 19, 2004, 19:43
this is an interesting thread. because I believe every foreigner has once,twice or more than a few times bashed Japan in some way. Why? well one reason and I think the main one is total fustration with the system. Also if you go through a day where everyone stares at you in a negative way (you know the way when there is no smile but a straight dry stare as if to say "go home!") and you experience a couple other unpleasures that is typically associated with Japan you will obviously have a pretty bad outlook of Japan by days end. But then you will go into a shop and get wonderfull kind service from someone and think "oh....why did I hate Japan so much.....this person is being kind). It is quite natural to say things to your mates (foreigners that is NOT Japanese as no matter what they will take it the wrong way) but you have to be carefull not to go overboard. I remember this Indian/Australian buy I worked with once at this Eikawa who just HATED Japan and went on and on and on. I was embarrassed the way this dick went on. So you have to be carefull. Also be very carefull if you are married to a Japanese person also. Even if you are right they do not like it. I can say from experience, this is why I am very carefull. Also if you come from some 3rd world country that has very poor human rights and then come to Japan and complain about racial discrimination I think you had better take another look at your own country. So yes you need to weigh things up and take a look at your own country. and when you criticize Japan about something it is also good to come out with something positive. I believe with practically everything where there is a negative there is also a positive.
that is it for now.
PaulTB
Jul 19, 2004, 19:50
And that is not mentioning the fact that you can't even see the sky in most cities through the massive jumble of power lines draped over every neighborhood!
But on the other hand they do may very handy visual metaphors. c.f. Serial Experiments Lain. :cool:
Also if you go through a day where everyone stares at you in a negative way (you know the way when there is no smile but a straight dry stare as if to say "go home!")
To be fair I think that's as likely to be the "Wow, what is that?" stare of ignorance than the "Eww, what's that gaijin doing here?" stare of prejudice.
Not that that's a vast improvement. :relief:
Amazinggrace
Jul 19, 2004, 21:07
But on the other hand they do may very handy visual metaphors. c.f. Serial Experiments Lain. :cool:
To be fair I think that's as likely to be the "Wow, what is that?" stare of ignorance than the "Eww, what's that gaijin doing here?" stare of prejudice.
Not that that's a vast improvement. :relief:
sure it could be that also. but it is hard to determine what is going through ones mind with just a stare apart from whether or not it is a + or - stare. If it is a glance without a smile it might mean all kinds of things. But that doesnt bother me. It is the direct stare without smiling and the slight frown that gets me. i got that the other day in a barber shop by some oyaji just staring. Obviously I just stare back until they give up and look away.
On the other hand the is the stare and laugh. You notice it ESPECIALLY when they are in their cars (security) especially a couple and it is usually the guy who makes the joke (insecurity perhaps? worried the girlfriend might fancy me so he comes up with a joke??) and then you seem them laugh.
This is what gets me down......the looks. And then ofcoarse the "you cannot rent this mansion cause you are a Gaijin!"......but why?? "cause you live differently than us"......but you have a western style toilet, a shower, an oven, a fridge, electricity etc etc......didnt we invent all of these????
I was denied twice with renting a mansion. Both times I got my way! just throw it in their face about RACE and what westerners have achieved and invented. Why I say this is cause they love the "Race Theory" and have grown up with it. So if you tell them how it is then you might just get your own way.
Golgo_13
Jul 20, 2004, 07:01
From what i have seen of Japans countryside. like on TV ... .... :blush:
It is quite similar to Norway
but i am insanly jelous of your night sky :mad:
i wanna see it TOO ! !
So nice of you to say. :cool:
Could anybody survive japan without complaing about it at least once a week? I don't mean "constructive" or "polite criticism". I mean REALLY sitting down with friends and complining about how sexist, perverted, dirty, and ignorant Japan can be at times.
The difference is WHO you do the complaining and bashing to. It is different when you are trying to change things than when you have just had TOO MUCH Japan.
Could anybody survive japan without complaing about it at least once a week? I don't mean "constructive" or "polite criticism". I mean REALLY sitting down with friends and complining about how sexist, perverted, dirty, and ignorant Japan can be at times.
The difference is WHO you do the complaining and bashing to. It is different when you are trying to change things than when you have just had TOO MUCH Japan.
I think this is normal human nature, move somewhere else and your bound to whinge about something. I go to Japan I complain about the bs and the humidity. I come back home and whige about how tatty everything looks and how unreliable public transport is.
I know someone who came from England and quite seriously complained that the sky is too blue and its sunny too much! :p
Let me put it another way.
If you live in Japan, Japan bashing is a way to stay sane. Often, the better you know the culture and the language, the more difficult it gets.
Critizing Japanese culture to Japanese people is a different matter. It is easy to lump Japanese people into one big group. It is a mistake.
However, those political vans that come around at 8 in the morning on Saturday should turn the volume down. Jesus Christ.
Surronded
Aug 3, 2004, 20:09
A little criticism is good for the evolution of a society
chikazukiyasui
Aug 19, 2004, 21:38
My experience is this: Foreigners complain.
I don't mean foreigners in Japan. I mean foreigners everywhere.
About three quarters of foreigners everywhere spend three quarters or more of their conversation-time complaining about the country they're living in, and at least three quarters of their complaints are unfair (either too slight or too obvious to mention, or inaccurate, or the same back home, or not really a bad thing, or just plain absurd). How much a foreigner complains is not a reliable indicator of how bad things in their adopted country really are. Rather, it is a sign of how much the foreigner misses home.
Of course, most expatriates and travellers don't quite notice how much they're doing it. They have to be told by the locals to shut up many times before they get the message. The one's who can't stop usually go home sooner -- fortunately.
cyber ape
Dec 19, 2004, 09:53
In another thread (Why does Japan suck so much) the issue of whether or not a foreigner should criticize Japan was raised. One poster said that it is inappropriate for someone to criticize someone elses country, while I felt that it was perfectly reasonable to do so, so long as you could back up what you were saying.
What do you think? Is it OK for foreigners to 'bash' Japan, and if so how far can you go before you go too far?
Um, you can bash anything. It's called using your lungs, or your hand if you choose to write it down. It is physically and verbally possible to "bash" something.
Now that that's over with, you should know alot about something before you recklessly bash it, because you might and probly will be proven wrong and will then be porved to be an ignorant *****. I mean, just how would one "bash" Japan?
More importantly, what'd be the point? Bashing things doesn't generally get anything accomplished...
Kamisama
Dec 20, 2004, 03:22
So if a japanese says to me "I think your hair is colorful" can i tell them that i think their wife is hot/beautiful?
Maciamo
Dec 21, 2004, 10:39
As French or Italian people say : "Who loves well chastises well" (Qui aime bien chatit bien/ Chi ama bene castiga bene).
nekosasori
Dec 22, 2004, 21:05
My experience is this: Foreigners complain.
I don't mean foreigners in Japan. I mean foreigners everywhere.
About three quarters of foreigners everywhere spend three quarters or more of their conversation-time complaining about the country they're living in, and at least three quarters of their complaints are unfair (either too slight or too obvious to mention, or inaccurate, or the same back home, or not really a bad thing, or just plain absurd). How much a foreigner complains is not a reliable indicator of how bad things in their adopted country really are. Rather, it is a sign of how much the foreigner misses home.
Of course, most expatriates and travellers don't quite notice how much they're doing it. They have to be told by the locals to shut up many times before they get the message. The one's who can't stop usually go home sooner -- fortunately.
You may be interested to know that, as much as I can, do, and have complained about Ireland, the demographic which complains MOST about this country is the Irish themselves. I have my own theories as to why this is, but I did want to point out that in my personal experience, the locals whinge "more" (frequency, length of time devoted to complaints) here than the immigrants. It's a way of bonding, and a way of life here, to complain that is.
Also, I was thinking about Canada, where I grew up - again, multi-generational Canadians were the most vocal; the new-comers didn't complain as much, or even at all. Tourists and exchange students, likewise - many of them wouldn't know that I was local, but I still never heard anything negative about their impressions. Quite the contrary.
Oh, and I NEVER once complained about my years in New England. I really enjoyed living there, even as a foreigner.
Actually given all that I've experienced and heard, I believe quite strongly that what you've said does not hold universally true.
Pachipro
Jan 24, 2005, 04:45
ragedaddy said:
I can understand where some people are coming from when they get irate about people saying bad things about Japan. However, it doesn`t seem like everybody realizes that sometimes the bashing is aimed at the situation that occurred rather than a culture or group as a whole.
...I myself have found various things about Japan to be a little frustrating, but I have also had a plethora of awesome experiences here. Sometimes, I get a little ticked about things that happened to me here living in Tokyo. However, I don`t go bad mouthing the population as a whole, just the offenders. Wherever you go there will be nice people and mean people, so just go with the flow and try not to blame the country or people as a whole for your own mishaps.
Amazinggrace said:
this is an interesting thread. because I believe every foreigner has once,twice or more than a few times bashed Japan in some way. Why? well one reason and I think the main one is total fustration with the system.
It has been my experience over the years, and this thread proves it, that foreigners in Japan constantly have a "love/hate" relationship with the country, myself included.
They are torn between the culture they grew up and were educated in, and the culture they are struggling to survive in. When things don't go as expected, or what they think should be the "norm", to them, they complain and lash out to friends or anyone who will listen.
If it is about renting an apartment and getting turned down, the hassles at the immigration office, or the frustrations you, and all Japanese for that matter, have to go through at the City Hall, or just registering a car, it is completely acceptable and a way to let off steam to me.
However, if it's just plain lashing out at the country, and the culture as a whole, with no basis whatsoever other than you realize you made a mistake and are now stuck for a year or two on a contract in a country that you have come to despise, that is crossing the line I think.
In my 32 year relationship with Japan, I have come to the conclusion, even when I was living there, that this is not my country, I was not born here, and I am not a citizen. I am a guest and if I don't like it, I can just leave. Or, I can attempt to learn the language and culture to gain an understanding of just where the Japanese are coming from and the basis for their thinking.
Sure, I can "***** and moan" about the traffic problems, and the crowded commuter trains, or the fact that they stop running just when the party is getting started, and numerous other things. But I have come to learn over the years that my frustrations are also felt by the Japanese as a whole and they complain about it as much as I do.
Therefore, its quite ok to let off some steam once in a while. As I was not born in Nashville, TN, I sometimes do it, as the customs down here differ somewhat from what I learned up north and in Japan. It's just a matter of blending in and enjoying the culture and country for what it is. And, as I said above, if I don't like it, I can always leave.
Black Piano
Jan 25, 2005, 06:30
bah all the other students i work with at college are so evil, they make fun of everyone and everything..doesnt matter who they hurt. They p*ss me cause they stuff about Japan and Japanese people a couple of time and it really makes me made cause its quite rude. They dont know what they are talking about..i just wish i was confident enough to tell them that V.V
Critisicism when done constructively and serves a purpose of maybe helping whom (Or what) is being criticized to do better or do something right, can be helpful. But when criticism is used more as a means of insult, then in that context, I find it unneccessary.
Yumi-Takana
Jan 31, 2005, 05:38
Criticism is alright if it is done in moderation and it isn't meant to hurt anyone. Like if someone says, "I don't like the pollution in Japan" or "I don't really like the crowds in Tokyo" that kind of criticism is ok to me. But if someone says something like "Japanese people are so short and think they know everything! We sure showed them when we bombed them" or something to that effect makes me extremely angry. I hate ignorant people like that.
Flowerbird
Jan 31, 2005, 09:59
If you want to "criticize" another culture, how willing are you to have others criticize yours? it's all very subjective.
Maciamo
Sep 12, 2005, 10:54
From my international experience, I strongly believe that those who chose "No criticism is valid because it is not your culture and foreigners can't understand it." are people who are either too stupid to understand even their own culture, or have never really left their country (except for beach holidays and a week of sightseeing maybe).
I may not mind people criticing my birth country's culture, because
1) it is difficult given that there is a different culture in each of the 3 linguistic groups, each of which linked to a neighbouring country. So if one criticises the Flemings, they may also criticise the Dutch, but maybe not (maybe the Walloons !).
2) I don't mind criticising anything I don't like there myself (and I harsher on it and with my compatriots than with anybody else).
3) I am not very attached to my birth country, having lived in many other countries and feeling more "international".
Maciamo
Sep 12, 2005, 11:13
Criticism is alright if it is done in moderation and it isn't meant to hurt anyone.
I disagree. There is almost no point in criticism if you don't shock people enough for them to realise their weaknesses and change. This is not only true for cultural criticism, but any "justified" criticism. If you want a child to learn, sometime it is good to embarass him/her or make him/her ashamed of his/her ignorance/mistakes, so that they will not forget so easily about their failure and not do it again.
Like if someone says, "I don't like the pollution in Japan" or "I don't really like the crowds in Tokyo" that kind of criticism is ok to me. But if someone says something like "Japanese people are so short and think they know everything!
Your examples are not even criticism to me. They are just a personal opinions, or unreflected, emotional comments.
True criticism should be logically argued, pinpoint the problem(s), explain why it shouldn't be like that (not because of personal feelings, but for example because it could be dangerous/harmful to society), then provide possible solutions. Basically criticism is saying something like "you shouldn't do x because of y and do z instead for this and that reasons".
"Japanese people are so short and think they know everything! We sure showed them when we bombed them"
This reaction (won't call it "criticism") sounds very puerile, or very "lower class". I don't remember meeting anybody saying things like that (not just about Japan but in general, except if it was obviously said as a gross joke).
Maciamo
Sep 12, 2005, 11:23
Critisicism when done constructively and serves a purpose of maybe helping whom (Or what) is being criticized to do better or do something right, can be helpful. But when criticism is used more as a means of insult, then in that context, I find it unneccessary.
That's a good point. But "emotional criticism meant as an insult and not based on any fact" is for me just an insult, not criticism. But I agree that it is possible to criticise based on real facts, and not being constructive about it because the person criticising does not explain why it is bad and how it should be changed.
Maciamo
Sep 12, 2005, 11:26
bah all the other students i work with at college are so evil, they make fun of everyone and everything..doesnt matter who they hurt. They p*ss me cause they stuff about Japan and Japanese people a couple of time and it really makes me made cause its quite rude. They dont know what they are talking about..i just wish i was confident enough to tell them that V.V
We are not talking about adults here (and probably not very mature teenagers either). We could forgive this behaviour on grounds of the lack of maturity, but I sincerely hope they will stop behaving like that past 20 years old (I see you are 17, so I guess the people you refer to are about the same age).
Maciamo
Sep 12, 2005, 12:02
In my 32 year relationship with Japan, I have come to the conclusion, even when I was living there, that this is not my country, I was not born here, and I am not a citizen. I am a guest and if I don't like it, I can just leave. Or, I can attempt to learn the language and culture to gain an understanding of just where the Japanese are coming from and the basis for their thinking.
I think even people born and raised in Japan with the Japanese citizenship can leave the country if they can't stand living there anymore. That's probably why, despite all the linguistic and cultural differences, there are 875,000 Japanese citizens living outside Japan (http://www.jref.com/society/japanese_living_abroad.shtml) (mostly in Western countries), a third of whom permanently.
As for learning more about the language and culture, what would happen if someone learns so much about them that he/she surpass the knowledge of the ordinary Japanese, and still have complaints because he/she is not fully accepted/recognised because he/she looks different ? What is this person has to face ignorance in daily life, knowing more about the culture than the natives, and be dismayed at the little locals know abou their own country ? I have already reached this stage about parts of the culture (history, religion, geography and demographics... sometimes even kanji). So, despite the fact that the Japanese call me "gaijin" ("outsider") and ask me questions like "Do you know where Matsuyama is ?" or "Can you use chopsticks ?", I cannot find a common ground because I quickly realise that not only do I know where is Matsuyama, I can also tell its population, history, important sights, etc., which my Japanese interlocutor cannot. Because I have written about many Japanese cities for JREF's Travel Guide and wrote statistics pages about cities population (http://www.jref.com/society/japan_population_cities.shtml), prefectural GDP per capita (http://www.jref.com/society/japan_prefecture_population_density_gdp_capita.sht ml), etc.
I have reached situations in which a new Japanese acquaintance tells me where his/her hometown is, and I say "oh yes, your are from Amagasaki near Kobe in Hyogo prefecture; isn't the population about 460,000 ?" Or "Oh, you are from Kyoto, have you been to the Fushimi Inari Taisha ?". Usually I only meet blank stares as my interlocutor as no idea, even about their hometown. Likewise, many Japanese ask me if I am Christian (heaven forbids ! :D), so I feel obliged to ask them if they are Buddhist or Shintoist. Some don't even know what is Shintoism (even when I show them the explanation in my Japanese-Japanese dictionary), and if they are Buddhist, many are not sure which sect they belong to, even when I tell them the whole list. No wonder I have people telling me that they didn't like European history or geography at school because it's "too complicated" - if they don't even know their own country.
So what should a foreigner in Japan be supposed to do ? Learn about the basics of the culture and country and immediately know more than ordinary (university-educated) Japanese, or just stay at the same ignorance level as them ? Should I be surprised when my (Japanese) wife asks me what this or that kanji means ? This is where 'adapting into Japanese society' is so different from adapting in the Italian or German society (to mention two countries where I have also lived). If an Italian tell you about a famous Italian painter and you admit that you don't know, their reaction will be "what, you don't know x ?! He is so famous !", in disbelief. In Japan the same situation can happened, but in reverse; the foreigner asks the Japanese "what you don't know who is x ?! He is so famous in Japan". Yet, I found the same local ignorance in Australia (I still remember asking some people about governor Macquarie (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lachlan_Macquarie), one of the founding fathers of Australia, and nobody knew who he was).
If you live in Japan, Japan bashing is a way to stay sane. Often, the better you know the culture and the language, the more difficult it gets.
If only one had told me that before, I would not have come to Japan ! There is no way for me to stay in a country, talk to the locals, and not learn about the coountry's culture ! So the longer one stays, and the harder it gets. I don't mind life in Japan as long as the people I meet do not fall in the forbidden category described in this article (http://www.jref.com/culture/misconceptions_prejudices.shtml). No, I don't want to hear this stupid theory about Asian being farmers and European hunters anymore ! :mad:
pipokun
Sep 12, 2005, 23:35
Congratulations on your new sub-forum!
If I remember correctly, I gave you the data for your theory on Japanese emigrants and stressful Japanese life before.
What do you think of non-Japanese expats living in Japan? Ghosn-san must be just an exception, but I believe you know much more the culture/history than Japanese or non-Japanese expats. I think it is totally unfair and you should be qualified to be a millionaire here.
Mikawa Ossan
Sep 18, 2005, 09:31
What about this? I put Japan in the same category as my native country. Or any other country, for that matter. Japan is as it is. That's the starting point for anything I say about Japan. There are things that I personally disagree with, but that holds true for any country, or company, or any other social group on the planet. I don't think that my native country's culture is inherently correct and Japanese inherently wrong, nor the reverse. I don't try to be an ex-pat in Japan, nor do I think of myself as one. I just try to be. I come across many problems, and I get frustrated, just as I used to back where I came from. And I complain from time to time. This is natural, and anyone who does this is perfectly within their rights.
However, categorically denying an aspect of any country's culture falls far outside of one's reasonable rights and priviledges as an individual. Especially if you don't know what you're talking about. I want to say an example, but I don't really know any other non-Japanese people anymore, so I don't hear much "Japan-bashing". I'm sorry about this, but the point is that "your" country or culture is not inherently superior to any other country or culture, Japan and its people included. Most people can only see another country or culture through the lens of their native one, and that's fine, but you must keep in mind that everybody has their own cultural lens. Why is yours better than anyone else's?
So in sum, I think that as long as you criticize Japan, but are mindful that there's plenty of dirty laundry in your basket, too, you are OK. Perhaps too simply put. (^o^)
Maciamo
Sep 18, 2005, 09:37
What about this? I put Japan in the same category as my native country. Or any other country, for that matter. Japan is as it is. That's the starting point for anything I say about Japan. There are things that I personally disagree with, but that holds true for any country, or company, or any other social group on the planet. I don't think that my native country's culture is inherently correct and Japanese inherently wrong, nor the reverse. I don't try to be an ex-pat in Japan, nor do I think of myself as one. I just try to be. I come across many problems, and I get frustrated, just as I used to back where I came from. And I complain from time to time. This is natural, and anyone who does this is perfectly within their rights.
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I completely agree with that. :cool:
Pachipro
Sep 23, 2005, 23:25
As for learning more about the language and culture, what would happen if someone learns so much about them that he/she surpass the knowledge of the ordinary Japanese, and still have complaints because he/she is not fully accepted/recognised because he/she looks different ? What is this person has to face ignorance in daily life, knowing more about the culture than the natives, and be dismayed at the little locals know abou their own country ? I have already reached this stage about parts of the culture (history, religion, geography and demographics... sometimes even kanji). So, despite the fact that the Japanese call me "gaijin" ("outsider") and ask me questions like "Do you know where Matsuyama is ?" or "Can you use chopsticks ?", I cannot find a common ground because I quickly realise that not only do I know where is Matsuyama, I can also tell its population, history, important sights, etc., which my Japanese interlocutor cannot. Because I have written about many Japanese cities for JREF's Travel Guide and wrote statistics pages about cities population, prefectural GDP per capita, etc.
I was in the same boat as you as I knew alot more about Japanese history than many Japanese I met as I had a great interest in learning as much as I could while at university. I even know more details than my wife, but she knows the basics. The same goes for some aspects of the culture and the local area I lived in, but I would not be dismayed that they knew less than I do as it was probably not an interest of theirs. In some aspects, they knew more than I did as it was an interest of theirs and not mine.
It's the same in this country as I probably know more about American history, politics, the local town I live in, etc. than do many natives. But that is because I choose to learn about such things while others do not. Are they ignorant? Not really, unless they do not know the basics that everyone, from high school drop-outs to university educated should know, like who our founding fathers were or who is the vice-president of the US and such or the mayor of the town. These types I would rather not associate with. But it doesn't bother me nor am I dismayed as it is their choice.
So what should a foreigner in Japan be supposed to do ? Learn about the basics of the culture and country and immediately know more than ordinary (university-educated) Japanese, or just stay at the same ignorance level as them ?
If that is the foreigners choice than so be it, but I wonder if it is really basic knowledge for the average Japanese, even university educated, to know what the GDP of his/her prefecture is for example, or the history of the Yoritomo family if that is not their interest. What you consider basic information and education may be information that is not required to be known even among University graduates.
Should I be surprised when my (Japanese) wife asks me what this or that kanji means ? This is where 'adapting into Japanese society' is so different from adapting in the Italian or German society (to mention two countries where I have also lived). If an Italian tell you about a famous Italian painter and you admit that you don't know, their reaction will be "what, you don't know x ?! He is so famous !", in disbelief. In Japan the same situation can happened, but in reverse; the foreigner asks the Japanese "what you don't know who is x ?! He is so famous in Japan". Yet, I found the same local ignorance in Australia (I still remember asking some people about governor Macquarie, one of the founding fathers of Australia, and nobody knew who he was).
No, you shouldn't be surprised if your wife asks you as her interests are different from yours.
I can't understand why it is so different from adapting into Italian or German society. If I went to live in Italy for example and had no interest in learning about their arts and someone said to me in disbelief, "What, you don't know x?! He is so famous!" I would reply that I had never studied about "x" as I don't have an interest in the arts. On the other hand, I may have an interest in a part of Italian culture that my Italian friend didn't have and he might not know about the "x" that I was talking about.
For example there are many people in New York City who have lived there all their lives and have never once visited the Statue of Liberty or the Empire State Building. Thay may not even know how many stories the building has and they are University educated. Does this make them ignorant? No, as it was just not an interest of theirs. But if they do not know where the Statue of Liberty came from and why it stands in New York Harbor than I would say they are ignorant as everyone should know this basic information. I'm sure there are also many educated people who cannot tell you the GDP of New York City or per capita income as it is not in their interest and is not a basic educational requirement.
I would guess that it is the same in any country, even Japan. So, if I say something that is basic to me because of my interest in, say, Japanese history, about the Yoritomo family and my Japanese friend doesn't know it, it would not surprise me. But, if he didn't know that Kyoto use to be the ancient capitol of Japan, for example, than I would be surprised and think he was ignorant.
nurizeko
Sep 23, 2005, 23:36
Criticism is perfectly fine, just being rude and impolite for the sake of causing offense, thats where the line is drawn.
Im quite happy to criticise many things, not just japan. :cool:
nestowa
Sep 28, 2005, 05:45
I don't think the poll is complete. I agree with the first answer, but as a perpetual student, when learning critisism in the form of questioning as in why... or how come... is used to gain knowledge of a situation. This is good to gain clarity of a forum. I don't mind if someone critisizes the culture of the country I live in, hell I do it. I would like to be told if I am being preceived as bashing or critisizing another culture. Then I would like to be taught what my bashing preception really meant to the person of the said culture.
Maciamo
Sep 29, 2005, 18:52
Are they ignorant? Not really, unless they do not know the basics that everyone, from high school drop-outs to university educated should know, like who our founding fathers were or who is the vice-president of the US and such or the mayor of the town. These types I would rather not associate with.
I think that the problem is that I come from a society where the exigencies regarding "cultural knowledge" are much higher than in most other countries, and Japan may well be at the bottom of the scale in the developed world in this regard (difficult to say whether the US or Australia are before or after, as the educational gap are much bigger there than in homogenous and "everyone-knows-about-the-same" Japan).
I can't understand why it is so different from adapting into Italian or German society.
Probably because Italian and German people have higher exigencies about cultural knowledge. I had a hard time in Australia though. With British people, only faced blatant ignorance among the "lower classes", even about their own mother tongue. I met people who couldn't understand any word a bit formal that I used (I tried writing it down, as I thought it may be a pronuciation problem, but they had never seen the words before. I forgot what they were, but one of them was "mausoleum"; I used this word to talk about the Taj Mahal when I was in India with some British tourists I had met on the way).
But, if he didn't know that Kyoto use to be the ancient capitol of Japan, for example, than I would be surprised and think he was ignorant.
I guess it's just a matter of education system and cultural dispositions. I don't say people should know about their prefecture's GDP, but I can't believe that some Japanese believe that Argentina is in Europe, Napoleon was a medieval knight in armour (sic !) or can't name even 2/3 of Japan's prefectures. Likewise, I would be amazed if a US citizen didn't know that Montana or Delaware were the name of a US states or thought that New York were their capital (such people exist ! I have met some). I can't think of anyone in my country (or most European countries) lacking such basic knowledge.
Kinsao
Sep 30, 2005, 17:16
"Mausoleum" is a lovely word.... :-) How sad people hadn't heard of it... I think I'm not especially well-educated but I knew that word... I don't know where from...
Anyway, what I really wanted to say, it doesn't belong here so much, but I wanted to pat on the back the forum moderators who speedily banned a recent Japan-basher. Nice one mods. :cool:
Actually it was the first time on here I encountered a purely mindless Japan-basher - most people at least take a little time to reason their arguments. :o
Pierrot le Fou
Oct 17, 2005, 13:54
Having lived here for 2.5 years, I've come across the following beliefs about complaining and Japan:
Anything goes. ***** as much as you want, when you want, where you want. Nobody will stop you.
Bitching to foreigners will be theraputic, as generally everyone piles on their complaints, you have a giant bitchfest, and it's very mollifying.
Bitching to Japanese will simply get you more frustrating, because bitching is not very Japanese, and Japanese people in general tend to get a tad defense when you start shitting on their country for no apparent reason.
Discussing problems with Japan with Japanese is the best. They agree, and crap on their own country more than the most unruly group of foreigners could, with more poignant complaints, and more passion behind them.
It took me a while to figure these out. I would ***** about discrimination, but because of my lack of social graces, I wasn't adept at complaining in a Japanese way which means it didn't work out so well. I'd just get complaints back at me, because of the way I was talking.
For instance, the previously mentioned 4 foreigner rule in baseball (you can only have 4 foreigners on a baseball team)... If I said, "Gee, that blows, because the level of play sucks" then I get complaints. If I say, "Gee, if the Hanshin Tigers had another player like George Arias, then they may have won the Nippon Series!" then I get a slew of complaints about the 4 foreigner rule, and the underperforming of Japanese Hanshin players.
It's just the nature of the beast. We want to complain in our way, but get poor responses, and then ***** about the responses we got as opposed to what we wanted to get. ***** their way, and you get some buddies who hate the same things. Dislike governor Ishihara? The Japaense do too! Dislike the sound trucks during election weeks? You don't hold a candle to your bartender who is asleep from 4am-noon!
And then you start to realize that bitching is fine, but far more theraputic when you do it the right way. Everyone bitches about their own countries with their countrymen, but how many times have you heard a bitter American lash out at people who bash America even if they would have made the same comment? How many times have you heard someone say, "How could Americans be so stupid as to elect Bush?" and have someone who despises Bush argue that Americans aren't stupid, and try to berate the person for a comment they mostly agree with...
Point is, anything goes. Restricting bitching would only cause a lot more people to lose it in Japan. But if you want to be taken seriously, then don't ***** to Japanese, or ***** in a Japanese way about Japan to the Japanese for better results.
Minxie
Oct 17, 2005, 21:21
if a japanese person come into this forum and post a thread on why america sux, nobody betta say nothin
all i'm sayin
Ditto that times 100.
If you can't take someones criticism on your own country, then it's wrong for you to bash someone elses.
Also, if you find it necessary to criticize every little aspect without sufficient evidence why for example, "Japan sucks", then your argument is insubstantial. In any good paper you might write for a College class, you have a thesis and argue that based on facts. That, like everyone knows, gives your paper a cohesive and valid argument - which can have either a positive or negative opinion/outlook (this is if you are writing a persuasive essay - even if you are writing a persuasive essay, one needs substantial evidence to support his or her own thesis).
celtician
Oct 18, 2005, 21:26
Senseiman came up with an interesting comment. Here in Jland they have a much more heightened sense of of nationality...Why???? Anyway....How many times have you experienced a conversation with just a regular citizen of this country like this:
A:Do you likeu sushi?
You: No not really.
A: Ahhh you donto like Japan
Retarded or what?
Silverpoint
Oct 21, 2005, 11:04
How many times have you experienced a conversation with just a regular citizen of this country like this:
A: Do you likeu sushi?
You: No not really.
A: Ahhh you donto like Japan
Strangely, I've never experienced anything like that.
Mikawa Ossan
Oct 21, 2005, 20:46
Anyway....How many times have you experienced a conversation with just a regular citizen of this country like this:
A: Do you likeu sushi?
You: No not really.
A: Ahhh you donto like Japan
Retarded or what?
I have never even heard of a conversation like this EXCEPT--
There is a kind of joke that I've heard Japanese people use amongst themselves, and I use it too, when talking in Japanese from time to time.
It goes something like this:
A-san (Japanese person) says something like, "Believe it or not, but I've never (insert something Japanese).
B-san (another Japanese person) says, "Really? Are you sure you're Japanese?"
It's not the same as your example, but it's what I know. Remember, sometimes something that sounds racist or discriminating is the same kind of joke that Japanese would use amongst themselves. Does that excuse the comment? It does with me, but that's just one man's opinion. :wave:
yukio_michael
Apr 10, 2006, 12:47
I had something to say here... but changed my mind.
gaijinalways
Apr 11, 2006, 18:36
I guess what I find 'annoying' in Japan is sometimes the attempt to justify not complaining about something even though you have provided evidence with links to articles, etc. and are knowledgable about your topic area, and yet someone gets bashed for stating there is a problem concerning that area in Japan and how you think it could be solved. Now sometimes you get into an expansion comparing this situation in Japan compared to other countries, but sometimes you wish people's anwers were not just 'oh, you don't know enough Japanese' or 'you're not Japanese, so how would you know' (both of which seem to be common slogans used even by Japanophiles here in Japan).
Beyond that, people will complain, and Pierro Le Fuo's comments really ring true for me. I just find it difficult to get Japanese people to even recognize a problem sometimes, with them sometimes taking the stance that 'only foreigners complain about it, so it is a foreign problem'!
Shrapnel
Apr 11, 2006, 20:34
In another thread (Why does Japan suck so much) the issue of whether or not a foreigner should criticize Japan was raised. One poster said that it is inappropriate for someone to criticize someone elses country, while I felt that it was perfectly reasonable to do so, so long as you could back up what you were saying.
What do you think? Is it OK for foreigners to 'bash' Japan, and if so how far can you go before you go too far?
Is it okay for illegal immigrants who illegally snuck into the U.S. to scream for justice whenever they don't get their way ?
Should foreigner living in Japan bash Japan just because they are not treated as equals ?
Japan has the highest standard of living than any country on earth in my opinion and if I had my Druthers on the matter no one would be allowed to Japan Bash.
As foreigners you are guest. If you have something good to say then say it, but to criticize the machine is trifling.
Japanese ppl have a blind spot in their field of vision. It is ok to criticize as long as it is reasonable. (But I guess ppl often don't agree on what's reasonable.)
MeAndroo
Apr 12, 2006, 02:58
Japanese ppl have a blind spot in their field of vision. It is ok to criticize as long as it is reasonable. (But I guess ppl often don't agree on what's reasonable.)
Actually, everyone has a blind spot in their field of vision where the optic nerve connects to the retina. Your brain is just able to fill in the blanks on a regular basis. There are ways of demonstrating it through activities like this. (http://www.tedmontgomery.com/the_eye/optcnrve.html)
Now sometimes you get into an expansion comparing this situation in Japan compared to other countries, but sometimes you wish people's anwers were not just 'oh, you don't know enough Japanese' or 'you're not Japanese, so how would you know' (both of which seem to be common slogans used even by Japanophiles here in Japan).
The reason this bugs you is because it's a faulty debate method known as ad hominem. I'd hope this would bug anybody.
godppgo
Apr 12, 2006, 03:55
Is it okay for illegal immigrants who illegally snuck into the U.S. to scream for justice whenever they don't get their way ?
Should foreigner living in Japan bash Japan just because they are not treated as equals ?
Japan has the highest standard of living than any country on earth in my opinion and if I had my Druthers on the matter no one would be allowed to Japan Bash.
As foreigners you are guest. If you have something good to say then say it, but to criticize the machine is trifling.
This is exactly something I wanted to point out. After been in this forum for a couple of months now I've observed some (not all) posters complaining about "why do Japanese do this" or "why is Japan like this" and demand Japan to change. I am just wondering have it ever occur to these complainers that you are on other's turf? When I came to North America I found some western behaviors annoying but I am okay with that. I asked people how should I behave to integrate to your society and I was totally fine with it.
It seems that for some westerners in Japan, rather than trying to understand and immerse into Japanese society, they demand Japanese to suit their need. Of course, not all foreigners in Japan are like this. Most of them might not agree with Japanese behaviors but at least they don't demand Japanese to behave in certain ways so the gaijin will feel more at home.
Actually, everyone has a blind spot in their field of vision where the optic nerve connects to the retina. Your brain is just able to fill in the blanks on a regular basis. There are ways of demonstrating it through activities like this. (http://www.tedmontgomery.com/the_eye/optcnrve.html)
Do you know the word "analogy"?
godppgo
Apr 12, 2006, 15:38
Actually, everyone has a blind spot in their field of vision where the optic nerve connects to the retina. Your brain is just able to fill in the blanks on a regular basis. There are ways of demonstrating it through activities like this. (http://www.tedmontgomery.com/the_eye/optcnrve.html)
This is some cool stuff!
Shrapnel
Apr 12, 2006, 18:34
This is exactly something I wanted to point out. After been in this forum for a couple of months now I've observed some (not all) posters complaining about "why do Japanese do this" or "why is Japan like this" and demand Japan to change. I am just wondering have it ever occur to these complainers that you are on other's turf? When I came to North America I found some western behaviors annoying but I am okay with that. I asked people how should I behave to integrate to your society and I was totally fine with it.
It seems that for some westerners in Japan, rather than trying to understand and immerse into Japanese society, they demand Japanese to suit their need. Of course, not all foreigners in Japan are like this. Most of them might not agree with Japanese behaviors but at least they don't demand Japanese to behave in certain ways so the gaijin will feel more at home.
Most westerners in Japan are arrogant and are not used to being treated like second class citizens. Conform and reform should be the modus vivendi of all foreigners living and working in Japan !
Mikawa Ossan
Apr 12, 2006, 18:54
Most westerners in Japan are arrogant and are not used to being treated like second class citizens.
Let's not split hairs here. Don't you mean white people? I know this sounds racist, but if you subsitute "white people" for "westerners" I would agree with that sentence 100%.
Ouch, huh?
MeAndroo
Apr 13, 2006, 00:29
Do you know the word "analogy"?
Certainly, I enjoy it almost as much as the word "tangent."
gaijinalways
Apr 13, 2006, 01:03
Should foreigner living in Japan bash Japan just because they are not treated as equals ?
No, sometimes it's much lower than that, the treatment that is. I might say in some cases the clows in the circus are being paid at least to be laughed at.
Japan has the highest standard of living than any country on earth in my opinion and if I had my Druthers on the matter no one would be allowed to Japan Bash.
Depends on how you define highest standard of living. For me, that includes the quality of life, not just the income level.
As foreigners you are guest. If you have something good to say then say it, but to criticize the machine is trifling.
Since when@do guests pay taxes?
Most westerners in Japan are arrogant and are not used to being treated like second class citizens. Conform and reform should be the modus vivendi of all foreigners living and working in Japan !
Sorry, you can be treated as second class anywhere, but I feel Japan is one of the most developed countries that is infamous for badly treating visitors based solely on their appearance, not necessarily on any other qualities. I've been badly treated in France and England, but no where on any scale like Japan. About the only place I can state where it seemed to be worse was China (which I don't consider as fully developed, from a technological and modern sense)! Though strangely enough I enjoyed living in Hong Kong more, go figure!
If people are complaining about customs, you're right, it's poor manners. Customs are different alll over the world, some you will like or feel are easy to adjust to, other take more of an effort (though they may be ignored sometimes if it's somewhat more of a life choice, like eating sushi). But if we are talking about discrimanatory practices, that's different, as Japan continues to not have any laws prohibiting or penalizing discrimanatory behaviour. Instead, people must sue over each individual case (which is still pretty prohibitvely expensive) and I think aspects of discrimination are not well understood by the judges hearing the cases, thus some cases are dismissed simply because the judges can't apply clear standards to the cases.
MeAndroo
Apr 13, 2006, 01:27
What's interesting to me is the Japanese definition of foreigner, in how it differs from that of the west. Most korean zainichi will tell you that.
If foreigners living IN Japan can't criticize it, and those living outside lack the first-hand knowledge to criticize it, who will challenge their long-standing traditions of treating foreigners like crap? The attitude of some posters reminds me of those Americans who say "if you don't like it, you can get out." Attempting to effect social change for the equal treatment of foreigners living legally in your society isn't something to be brushed off so easily.
Criticism itself is not wrong, but ppl tend to dislike someone with "I'm right, you are wrong" kind of attitude. Many ppl tend to do this, maybe including myself. It strikes them as rude. So maybe it really depends how you express yourself.
In another asian country where I live in, many negative evaluations and complaints by foreigners are met with "Go Home!!!" (At least, it looks like no one does this in the forum.) It's about losing/saving their "face". They are proud ppl.
Dutch Baka
Apr 13, 2006, 03:22
Let's not split hairs here. Don't you mean white people? I know this sounds racist, but if you subsitute "white people" for "westerners" I would agree with that sentence 100%.
Ouch, huh?
What do you mean with westerners? Americans? Dutch? French people?
100% disagree on westerners!
godppgo
Apr 13, 2006, 03:26
What's interesting to me is the Japanese definition of foreigner, in how it differs from that of the west. Most korean zainichi will tell you that.
If foreigners living IN Japan can't criticize it, and those living outside lack the first-hand knowledge to criticize it, who will challenge their long-standing traditions of treating foreigners like crap? The attitude of some posters reminds me of those Americans who say "if you don't like it, you can get out." Attempting to effect social change for the equal treatment of foreigners living legally in your society isn't something to be brushed off so easily.
I don't think Japanese are in nature racist. They are just not used to and not sure how to deal with gaijin. Lack of experience with gaijin then makes them defensive when it comes to interacting with gaijin. When people become defensive they retract their tentacles and hide in their shells. Put yourself in their shoes and try to imagine what's it like growing up in an environemnt where 99.9% of people around you is Japaneses (seeing gaijin from TV doesn't count). Not to mention the territorial trait common to many asian people.
Criticism is okay as long as its made under the intention that one is trying to understand and interact sincerely with the Japanese. So the more proper saying would be "If you don't like it, get used to it, learn their language(at least a few phrases), show your sincereness, be one of them".
MeAndroo
Apr 13, 2006, 03:43
Oddly enough, the Japanese are UNracist. Theirs is an odd xenophobia that revolves around wanting foreigners who live there to assimilate totally, forsaking citizenships, passports, and even surnames. The term gaijin doesn't mean foreigner, it means outsider. Koreans who are born and raised in Japan, but maintain their Korean surname are treated worse than a Korean who moves to Japan and becomes a naturalized citizen. This isn't racist; rather, it's anti-non-Japanese. Examples naturally exist outside of this, such as the treatment some mixed people get, but I see that as having a connection to the "you aren't Japanese" motivation.
I understand their society is relatively homogenous, but I don't think the everyday behavior of the average Japanese is the issue here. I tend to think the average Japanese is more willing to extend greetings to an obvious foreigner than someone in say, America, might be. My problem isn't with these people, it's with the way the government can sometimes systematically focus on un-assimilated foreigners. By saying a typical Korean Zainichi without a Japanese surname isn't a Japanese citizen, forcing them to carry gaijin torokusho (foreign registration card), they send the message that they AREN'T a part of the Japanese people. This opens them up to bullying through school and difficulties in the workplace.
For example, the librarian at the international center at Waseda U is a Korean. Her parents had adopted a Japanese surname before she was born and didn't encounter any real problems. At some point in her early life, their surname was restored to the original Korean, and she was bullied pretty mercilessly in school for it.
gaijinalways
Apr 15, 2006, 22:47
Theirs is an odd xenophobia that revolves around wanting foreigners who live there to assimilate totally, forsaking citizenships, passports, and even surnames.
This is somewhat true for any country, but as stated, more so in Japan.
The term gaijin doesn't mean foreigner, it means outsider.
Does it ever!
This isn't racist; rather, it's anti-non-Japanese.
It certainly is discrimination (doesn't matter if itis racial or not).
I don't think Japanese are in nature racist. They are just not used to and not sure how to deal with gaijin. Lack of experience with gaijin then makes them defensive when it comes to interacting with gaijin. When people become defensive they retract their tentacles and hide in their shells. Put yourself in their shoes and try to imagine what's it like growing up in an environemnt where 99.9% of people around you is Japaneses (seeing gaijin from TV doesn't count). Not to mention the territorial trait common to many asian people.
I see this arguement a lot. I suppose at times it would be difficult to distinguish between whether people are discrimanatory or simply xenophobic or ignorant. But I would think especially urban areas would have more contact with non-Japanese, so this 'lack of experience' should be declining, no? You could argue the same for some countries where the population is predominantly one major culture, but Japan seems to revel in it. That and the government's policy of promoting 'foreigners as a problem' doesn't help.
Criticism itself is not wrong, but ppl tend to dislike someone with "I'm right, you are wrong" kind of attitude. Many ppl tend to do this, maybe including myself. It strikes them as rude. So maybe it really depends how you express yourself.
This true, if you tend to polarize an arguement, it will be more liklely to be ill received. The funny thing is I see some Japanese doing it 'gaijin always do this...' type statements that piss me off. How can they lump Americans, French, Brazilians, etc. in the same category?
yukio_michael
Apr 16, 2006, 07:15
Is it okay for illegal immigrants who illegally snuck into the U.S. to scream for justice whenever they don't get their way?Is this a serious question--- your posts have been so unctuous, first you're saying that a girl is worthless & crazy if she doesn't drink alcohol and eat natto, which went over so well, and now you're basically talking about 'the illegals' being whiney about trying to improve their standard of living, while at the same time, doing jobs not wanted and not filled by the host country, all while aoiding being classified as a felon, or persona non grata for being there illegally... try explaining the economies of California and Texas without these immigrants.
Should foreigner living in Japan bash Japan just because they are not treated as equals?Why on earth would people ever want to be treated as equals? Given the chance to earn an equal wage, or say, the chance to get housing equally, or not to be looked at as criminals when they walk down the street of their prefecture, not to be the focus of sensationalized news coverage that tries to frame them as the purveyors of crime, not to be thought of as subpar human beings, or 'different' human beings who do not or can not think, learn, or act to be a part of Japanese society... to be free of statements of government officials that suppose that they might riot in the occasion of another earthquake. Why on earth would anyone ever criticize that?
Japan has the highest standard of living than any country on earth in my opinion.Japan will continue to have the highest standard of living, solely in your opinion, because that is just not true... anyone who has had to shop at a 99yen store for the majority of their meals knows this to be true.
...and if I had my Druthers on the matter no one would be allowed to Japan Bash.First, you don't, so you'll have to put up with other people's pesky opinions on the matter, just like you give us yours... Second, we're talking about mostly people who all have opinions about a place based on having lived there, things they've experienced, etc, not out-right 'bashing'.
As foreigners you are guest. If you have something good to say then say it, but to criticize the machine is trifling.Complaining probably does get you nowhere... but at what point do you stop being a 'guest' and start being a resident? At what part do you become a member of society, and not just gaikokujin, if you are Chinese, or Korean, or Brazillian, or from the United States... when? Your logic of forcing people to only say good things about ANY country just fosters more and more ignorance.
yukio_michael
Apr 16, 2006, 07:36
Japan continues to not have any laws prohibiting or penalizing discrimanatory behaviour.I think it's important to point this sort of thing out--- I would ad it to my previous post, but the editing system at jref has been odd lately, and it makes editing your threads a bit of a chore because you have to re-format them.
Japan also does not in fact have any laws prohibiting hate-speech. From wiki (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ethnic_issues_in_Japan):
Hate speech is not a criminal offense but speech of insult, such as calling someone "fool!", is a minor civil offense which results in monetary compensation which is lower than the cost of going through judicial process. Japan does not have human rights legislation which enforces or penalises discriminatory activities committed by citizen, business or non governmental organisation. Attempt has been made in legislature to enact human rights legislation. In 2002, a draft was submitted to the house of common but it did not reach the vote. Had the law passed, it would have set up the Human Rights commission which would investigate, name and shame or financially penalise discriminatory practice as well as hate speech committed by private citizens or establishments.
...additionally, there is not a good history of treatment of indiginous minorities within Japan nor amnesty seekers, nor even females if you take in to consideration the workplace.
If these are the things that people are criticizing, I'd say that this dialouge is valid concerning any nation.
gaijinalways
Apr 16, 2006, 13:47
Well put Yukio, makes sense to me. But a lot of people argue that other countries don't allow full rights to foreign residents, which is true to some extent. Examples included Israel, and I have read about problems in Sweden and Finland for married couples who can't live together. I'm still surprised that for the size of the Japanese economy (2nd largest in the world for a nation) and as a nation with a fairly high standard of living, yet laws concerning 'equal' rights for foreign residents, women, and minorities, Japan ranks pretty badly. I think comparing Japan to countries that are just as bad or worse doesn' t push Japan to try to change for the better. Hopefully all countries should be trying to raise their standards, not just simply looking for others that are worse.
Han Chan
Apr 16, 2006, 19:56
I think that people who come from other countries naturally have other perspectives on things in Japan than the native population. That is how it is to be forigner!
If you find that some things are different in Japan you should first try to understand why. Ask curiously instead complaining. Finally if you find that there are things that you dislike, you should not expect that you or your Japanese frields have much power to change these things.
It is fine to engage in dialogue - you observation might be interesting, but if you think you can change things by merely critizing/bitching, you are wrong. It is like that in Japan and everywhere else. Actually, if you start complaining about the Danes in Denmark you will quickly be told that you are free to leave! The Japanese are often too polite to tell their forign friends to stop complaining all the time.
This true, if you tend to polarize an arguement, it will be more liklely to be ill received. The funny thing is I see some Japanese doing it 'gaijin always do this...' type statements that piss me off. How can they lump Americans, French, Brazilians, etc. in the same category?
Right, I agree. They see no difference.
Shrapnel
Apr 17, 2006, 15:59
[QUOTE=yukio_michael]Is this a serious question--- your posts have been so unctuous, first you're saying that a girl is worthless & crazy if she doesn't drink alcohol and eat natto, which went over so well, and now you're basically talking about 'the illegals' being whiney about trying to improve their standard of living, while at the same time, doing jobs not wanted and not filled by the host country, all while aoiding being classified as a felon, or persona non grata for being there illegally... try explaining the economies of California and Texas without these immigrants.
First of all, no illegal should complain about his/her standard of living if they are illegally here ! And it should be a felony to defy U.S. Law and border security. We apply it to the Haitians and everyone else who is non-American.
What makes Mexican's any different ? Is it because they choose to depress our wages and overburden are health care and education system while hard working tax paying American citizens foot the bill ? I don't understand your level of reasoning. I do beleive that America should develop a more comprehensive way to deal with this issues but comments like you made are completely ludicrous.
Why on earth would people ever want to be treated as equals? Given the chance to earn an equal wage, or say, the chance to get housing equally, or not to be looked at as criminals when they walk down the street of their prefecture, not to be the focus of sensationalized news coverage that tries to frame them as the purveyors of crime, not to be thought of as subpar human beings, or 'different' human beings who do not or can not think, learn, or act to be a part of Japanese society... to be free of statements of government officials that suppose that they might riot in the occasion of another earthquake.
Equality is a fundamental right that all western countries espouse. Again, those that enter the U.S. illegally are criminals. And you can' apply this to Japan. This is a foreign country where all non-Japanese are guest, not equals.
Japan will continue to have the highest standard of living, solely in your opinion, because that is just not true... anyone who has had to shop at a 99yen store for the majority of their meals knows this to be true.
First, you don't, so you'll have to put up with other people's pesky opinions on the matter, just like you give us yours
Japan has the highest standard of living regardless of whether you shop at the 99 yen store. The cost of living is expensive because Japan produces such high quality products. If you can afford that then I suggest you get a higher paying job. Not everything has the be cheap you know. I can give you so many examples but I just don't have time now.
yukio_michael
Apr 18, 2006, 01:31
Is it because they choose to depress our wages and overburden are health care and education system while hard working tax paying American citizens foot the bill?What taxes are YOU paying for Mexicans? And last I checked, Mexican immigrants didn't have the most stellar healthcare. Last, depress our wages, you mean by taking away the lucrative dangerous jobs such as in slaughterhouses where they earn a fraction of a living wage?
Don't get me wrong, I'm all for doing it by the books. I just think that in certain instances, you can't declare that millions of people living in your country who's only crime is the lack of a valid visa to be illegal--- Reagan gave 2.7 million immigrants amnesty in 1986 with the Immigration Reform & Control Act. I'm not for giving criminals free passage, I'm not for skirting the system of law, but just as in Japan, there is a function for these people living here, if you like it or not, and they're taking nothing away from you.
I don't understand your level of reasoning. I do beleive that America should develop a more comprehensive way to deal with this issues but comments like you made are completely ludicrous.All nations should develop a more comprehensive way to deal with immigration issues... there are these issues being raised in Japan now it's focusing on the finger printing of foreigners. Japan has illegals too, doing the same type of work that the Japanese choose not to do, I don't believe they will expell them.
Equality is a fundamental right that all western countries espouse. Again, those that enter the U.S. illegally are criminals. And you can' apply this to Japan. This is a foreign country where all non-Japanese are guest, not equals.I would hope that equality is a fundamental human right. You speak like a great nationalist, of expeling the un-desirables. "All non-Japanese"... to what extent are you extending your final solution to the immigration problem? Every race in Japan not Japanese? I'm glad the actual goverments don't act the way you think, or we'd be rounding up people in the steets to put in blockades.
Japan has the highest standard of living regardless of whether you shop at the 99 yen store.[/b]NO it doesn't. I'll ask you now, are you saying this because a) you've lived there, or b) you read articles concerning Japan's economic condition, because it seems as if neither of these two things are true.
This is a fairly good article summary on facets of the Japanese standard of living... (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Living_standard_in_Japan), asides from that you have to look at GDP, furthermore, a bigmac is a bigmac anywhere you buy it--- if you buy it for 6 dollars in Japan, it doesn't mean you're getting a better value. There are Japanese products that cost more in Japan than they do outside of Japan, which must explain your idea of their stellar standard of living.
Also, take a look at the gini coefficiant for a broader look at the function of income in Japan & the gap between the rich and poor in Japan. Japan has a much better gap between say their top managers and their employees (as compared to the United States who's workers and top level managers are extremely polarized), however there is a growing gap between the poor or middle class and lower and the very rich in Japan. Japan is very much becoming a place of two classes: Haves & Have nots. This has occured at different times in Japan's history where economic situations dictated that certain people became instantly wealthy, for example, during the bubble economy.
The cost of living is expensive because Japan produces such high quality products.Now who's being ludicrous?
If you can afford that then I suggest you get a higher paying job. Not everything has the be cheap you know. I can give you so many examples but I just don't have time now.Yeah, those lousy low paid, over-worked employees should just work harder. You're a real humanitarian aren't you.
Again, are you saying this based on study of the economy, your travels to Japan, or just your own fantasies?
~ another nod: here (http://www.pliink.com/mt/marxy/archives/000287.html)
yukio_michael
Apr 18, 2006, 01:39
Also, we're not comparing standard of living in Japan to standard of living in Nepal... we're looking at it world-wide, which I think it hovers somewhere around 9th... I'll edit this second post when I find a link to something relevant. It's a standard of living that has certainly made it a less-desirable place to live, if someone could link to any older jref forum threads about that I couldn't locate those either... dang it.
Culturally, I feel like the Aughts have brought with them two unfortunate, but understandable developments in Japan: the acknowledgment of wealth discrepancy and a re-emergence of narikin culture. Although the myth of "everyone being middle class" still drives more and more people every year into consumer debt and sarakin-related troubles, the difference between poor and rich is becoming much more apparent in everyday Japanese life. Especially with the friitaa and those joining the workforce, some people clearly have money to spend and the others are eating at Yoshinoya everyday. I don't want to exaggerate this phenomenon, but I do think the rise in income equality has crossed a threshold and the peak of the iceberg is dipping above the water.Excerpt from a previous link--- though I think it shares my opinion well enough to quote.
More as I think of it.
Shrapnel
Apr 18, 2006, 14:41
Yukio,
I see your point but we seem to be drifting a little off topic.
Here's what I think. I'm basing my logic off of empirical observation by using my own experience. I have been living and working in Japan now for the last four years and so when I say Japan's standard of living is high it's because I live a life of opulence in comparison to most.
You, on the other hand, are using a more authoritative approach to your reasoning by backing up what you say with references and a comprehensive analagy of Japan and past and present and how it relates to the average Japanese family.
yukio_michael
Apr 18, 2006, 14:57
You, on the other hand, are using a more authoritative approach to your reasoning by backing up what you say with references and a comprehensive analagy of Japan and past and present and how it relates to the average Japanese family.I lived there for six months as well, and I can tell you that all manner of people have different ideas about what constitutes a 'high standard of living', even those I knew who lived in fairly nice parts of Shibuya had to have supplimental income as well as become slaves to the companies they work for--- ie, sleeping at work, etc etc--- and these are people whom I would consider to be well off. None of them considered that the horrible work conditions were fair or adequate standards of living--- if they could afford to live in luxury or not.
You cant judge a nation's standard of living on your own opulance.
ps. I'll add one last thing... there is a difference between "freedom", and "freedom of purchase", and as Billy Bragg once said, "You'll wait a long time for a Beverly Hills coup...."
sl0thmachin3
Apr 18, 2006, 20:26
One should know what one talks about if ever one wants to criticize. I mean generalizations do not really present the entire picture and discussions using such "enveloping statements" go nowhere. Besides which, objectivity is well nigh impossible when critizing another culture. In the first place, one uses one's own culture for basing their criticism. Comparing cultures objectively is very difficult especially if one is not familiar with the other culture. My take is be open-minded. People do things because that's how they were brought up. If one does not understand why or how such behavior came about I feel it is best not to comment on it.
gaijinalways
Apr 20, 2006, 00:38
slothmachin3 wrote My take is be open-minded. People do things because that's how they were brought up. If one does not understand why or how such behavior came about I feel it is best not to comment on it.
Looks like you might not be saying much than:relief: ! Actually, I think sometimes people in Japan don't seem to know, or at least they don't let on that they know or think about problems that exist here. The infamous 'can't think outside the box' sentiment applies to all cultures to some extent, but it does seem more apt for some. But if people recognize something as a problem, within the culture, than ignoring it won't solve anything. Often some cultures have been pushed to recognition of a problem by another culture, though most likely the culture with the problem still needs to take action.
dangdaga
Apr 21, 2006, 18:32
What are you implying? Your veiled comment lost me.
http://img227.imageshack.us/img227/2250/60158873350585tu.jpg
pipokun
Apr 21, 2006, 20:09
Also, take a look at the gini coefficiant for a broader look at the function of income in Japan & the gap between the rich and poor in Japan. Japan has a much better gap between say their top managers and their employees (as compared to the United States who's workers and top level managers are extremely polarized), however there is a growing gap between the poor or middle class and lower and the very rich in Japan. Japan is very much becoming a place of two classes: Haves & Have nots. This has occured at different times in Japan's history where economic situations dictated that certain people became instantly wealthy, for example, during the bubble economy.
Enlighten me more about the coefficient and Japan.
Yumiko33
Apr 22, 2006, 14:25
I don't understand who somebody can speak bad about one country, if this person don't know enought about history, religion, laws, and mach more things. First, when you wanna to speak about one country, and peoples in this country, you must to know language, and will be good, that you spent some your time in this country. Differece from Japan and other countries is normal. So, I have a cousin who is a vegeterian, and when he said: "I can understood peoples who can eat a little chicken..." I just said to him: "Try to live on the North Pole, maybe you will be have a chance to understand." Each country has good and bad things, so everybody try to live in country whose laws and life-system like.
yukio_michael
Apr 22, 2006, 20:42
Enlighten me more about the coefficient and Japan.The Gini coefficiant (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gini_index) or index can be used to messure income inequality. Starting before world war II, Japan was privy to a lot of I suppose, industrialist classes whom lost a great deal of wealth in the war, and during the occupation, which had an effect of leveling off the inequalities enjoyed thereafter.
In the bubble period, there was a great exapnse in wealth and spending for people mostly who had already owned property, as property values increased dramatically.
In 1990, the index was at 0.3643, and in 2002, it was at 0.3812, and seems to be rising (the coefficiant in the United States was 0.368 in 2000) link (http://72.14.203.104/search?q=cache:w6eN7dqMIEEJ:www.japantimes.co.jp/cgi-bin/getarticle.pl5%3Fnn20060104f3.htm+gini+coefficient +japan&hl=en&gl=us&ct=clnk&cd=1).
A higher number indicates greater inequality up to a theoretical maximum of 1.0, in which one person controls the entire wealth of a country.
What I think, any country should try to do is to a) try to prevent a system that rewards strictly the wealthy classes, and b) does not out-right punish wealth and profit.
Former Democratic Party of Japan leader Naoto Kan recently accused Prime Minister Junichiro Koizumi of accelerating the trend toward "liberalism for the strong," which he said is turning more people into either "Horiemon (referring to the young Internet mogul Takafumi Horie) or homeless."
link: above.
~And... for the curious. This (http://www.jref.com/forum/showthread.php?t=19248) thread, was what I was looking for when I was arguing w/ shrapnel nee mctojo earlier...
gaijinalways
Apr 23, 2006, 01:54
gaijinalways wrote Looks like you might not be saying much than ! Actually, I think sometimes people in Japan don't seem to know, or at least they don't let on that they know or think about problems that exist here. The infamous 'can't think outside the box' sentiment applies to all cultures to some extent, but it does seem more apt for some. But if people recognize something as a problem, within the culture, than ignoring it won't solve anything. Often some cultures have been pushed to recognition of a problem by another culture, though most likely the culture with the problem still needs to take action.
dangdaga wroteWhat are you implying? Your veiled comment lost me.
My implication is that for quite a few Japanese, being 'open-minded' is difficult. And something prevelant here is the 'Shoganai' factor, where things could be changed and people lack any independence to improve someone's situation unless they feel that person belongs to a group that they also belong to. Of course there are exceptions, but I sometimes get tired of trying to find them, instead what I often get are excuses. Yet, when you find Japanese people who are kind, they can be overly so, but they are a real rarity, in my opinion of course.
Yumiko33 wroteDifferece from Japan and other countries is normal. So, I have a cousin who is a vegeterian, and when he said: "I can understood peoples who can eat a little chicken..." I just said to him: "Try to live on the North Pole, maybe you will be have a chance to understand." Each country has good and bad things, so everybody try to live in country whose laws and life-system like.
Yes, differences are normal, being discriminated aganist with no laws to protect you is not. Welcome to 'gaijin' reality.
Hanneesh
Apr 23, 2006, 04:30
if a japanese person come into this forum and post a thread on why america sux, nobody betta say nothin
all i'm sayin
your avin a laugh mate. people are saying that americans abroad should pretend to be canadian too avoid descrimination because everyone hates them so much.
yukio_michael
Apr 23, 2006, 05:47
your avin a laugh mate. people are saying that americans abroad should pretend to be canadian too avoid descrimination because everyone hates them so much.The difference is that we're talking about criticisng policies mainly re-inforced by the Japanese government, that are essentially unfair and discrimenatory, and you are talking about the notion that a country for whom 70% or so disaprove of the president's job, should get lambasted even though they have absolutely no say in public policy, or moreover, the electoral process, really---
Tony Blair is no prize either, borderline communist I've heard from some Brittons... but let's talk about how much people HATE Americans...
sigh.
pipokun
Apr 23, 2006, 18:31
yukio_michael, thanks for your explanation.
I know the meaning and what I wanted was your interpretation.
For example, you may say Japanese women are severely discriminated when it comes to their working conditions, however, some say the rising index is due to improved women's status. There still remains lots of staying-home mom privileges, but no one knows the future.
Do women choose poor partners? Maybe (hopefully), maybe not.
yukio_michael
Apr 24, 2006, 02:26
yukio_michael, thanks for your explanation.
I know the meaning and what I wanted was your interpretation.
For example, you may say Japanese women are severely discriminated when it comes to their working conditions, however, some say the rising index is due to improved women's status. There still remains lots of staying-home mom privileges, but no one knows the future.
Do women choose poor partners? Maybe (hopefully), maybe not.Thanks for the response, I wanted to mention too, that the index may be misrepresented as you say, as a result of other factors, this is what I've read from a few people who have tried to interpret it themselves---
I think there exists a great deal of income inequality in the United States, so I'm certainly not leveling sole blame on Japan. In the United States, and the United Kingdom however there is, and has been definitely a public identity given to 'the rich', whereas Japan (and to their benefit, or perhaps economic benefit) for a long time has enjoyed the idea of one single middle-class... Everyone is equal, at least in ideal. People I think are starting to recognise that this just isn't true. People still buy Louis Viuton accross classes however, whereas in most places this is seen solely as a luxury item, primarily owned by the upper classes--- (class is also a bad word in the UK/USA... but regardless), we know we can't all own it. Japan may have, and seems to have, different ideas about social status... which I think excelerated rapidly during the bubble period, where showing your 'good' taste was considered part and parcel of being inthe neuveu riche.
If labour needs dictate it, more women will be better represented in the workplace, but this as you say, doesn't void the desire in Japan for traditional roles for women at home and as the arbiter mostly of the children. Do they choose poor partners? The Japanese male hasn't exactly enjoyed a great reputation...
Pitty the Japanese male. Pushed from indulged boyhood, he fights his way through examination hell, interview high-water, commuter trains, and office politics, shouldering the weight of familial and even national expectations. Now he tands shivering in the spotlight, dirty linen and hidden warts exposed to the world. In these latter days of post-feminism, he doesn't come off well, pelted as he is with accusations of arrogance, materialism, sexual deviance, insensitivity, racism, and sexism. Of course, more than a few Japanese women have been saying this all along.
-Ginny Skord Waters on the books, The Way of the Urban Samurai (http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0804818177/sr=8-1/qid=1145813307/ref=sr_1_1/002-2292146-3444809?%5Fencoding=UTF8), (1992, Tengu Books) & Butterflies of the Night: Mama-sans, Geisha, Strippers, and the Japanese men they serve. (http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/059532603X/qid=1145813348/sr=2-1/ref=pd_bbs_b_2_1/002-2292146-3444809?s=books&v=glance&n=283155) (1992, Tuttle).
Those books may be a bit dated, but I don't think the social environment has changed too radically much from their publish dates.